> With ceramics and glass, things get a little tricky. You can take a relatively weak and softer piece of pottery ceramic and obliterate the hardened bullet-resistant windows on police cars [...] That happens via ultrasonic frequencies created on impact.
All of that is wrong. You can't use pottery shards or even hard pebbles to break glass; you need very hard technical ceramics[1]. Spark plug ceramic is alumina which is extremely hard.
It has nothing to do with ultrasonic frequencies, it's caused by crack propagation. Tempered glass is under internal stress due to its quench rate and chemical treatment, so as soon as the outer shell is broken the entire thing shatters. Alumina is so hard that a corner can chip off a bit of glass, releasing that pressure.
Ceramics can't be tempered like glass, and like untempered glass they only shatter if an impact by a much harder object is above the fracture propagation energy. That means that most of the time the impact energy is about the same as the actual toughness of the material. For high toughness ceramics there are no materials hard enough to cause chipping, so they break exclusively under normal toughness.
[1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ninja_rocks