Here's the link to the lady who started it:
http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/child_internet_safety/1003998-Ne...
While I do agree they probably shouldn't have had that done, the response of the moms in the forum is pretty funny as some of them want to have facebook shut down and get the cops involved.
Also, how do they not realize that their 14 year old installed the program of their own will?