There is currently no equivalent to Distributed Erlang, but that's something that the creator of the language has been looking into.
At this time, there is no "in the wild" implementation.
When using async based APIs with something like Akka, passing around futures and such, and leveraging multiple actors in thread pools, doesn't that get you to approximately the same place as Erlang?
Sure, the JVM isn't doing the preempting, but the OS is. Is the main downside per-thread resource consumption and context scheduling overhead?
I do scala/akka in my dayjob and the amount of time we spend tweaking threadpools (execution contexts) and retesting just to get okay performance is insane. You wear a pretty big cost when you layer on abstractions like that.