"No apparent leader" is easy to say, but during the video PG describes his observations of that leadership vacancy in a number of different ways. You can intuitively understand what sort of leadership he's talking about, in a way that "we don't like not knowing who to address a question to" doesn't really convey. (ie, it's nothing about the artist not wearing a "hi I'm the artist" nametag.) And it doesn't have to be a super-charismatic visionary who also knows everything, just someone who is more assertive and capable of driving the others.
Been friends
Worked together for awhile
Don't come together for only the startup
If close friends, stick with it even if things look bad because things eventually get better.
Don't want companies run by committee.
Need clear leadership, don't want unclear sense of who the primary decision maker is. Want to know who they should address a question to.
But not a megalomaniac, just want somebody who steps forward.
Founder power is increasing, investor power waning, probably good because those most knowledgeable getting more power.
Lot cheaper to start a startup these days.
More socially acceptable to start a startup these days.
Conway said a lot of his portfolio companies were in New York these days.
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I hate watching videos too as interesting as PG is to watch, I took the hit for the rest of ya.
(I read much faster than anyone can possibly speak.)
I took away : friends will work on a project through the bad times out of loyalty (which happens to be a good thing), while co founders who were not friends will bail at the point when the walls come crashing down.
You may have your refund of $0.00 for my services in two weeks.
Everything else I said in that post were my own words, especially the reasoning on why good friends stick it out. I find it kind of negative to simply put it on guilt -- I choose to believe that good friends work together and help each other out because they like each other, not because of fear of losing a friendship.
So...
PM me if you are interested in working on a side project together and nurturing a friendship based on shared values.
*Execution really is king, but is greatly helped by being smart and fast. Basically if you have all three you can take a whim idea do it quickly and see 'what if.' The faster that someone can iterate through that process the more chances they can give themselves at finding a good business.