As a web developer, I see this attitude a lot and it annoys me immensely. Another way of phrasing it: Google is putting users first, ahead of developers. This is as it should be. "your" website exists to serve users, if you're doing a bad job at it then maybe it's an opportunity for self reflection.
Janky scrolling behaviour on mobile has been a problem for a long time. Apple also implemented non-standard behaviour for years to avoid it. You should almost never be listening to scroll events in a non-passive way. The vast majority of times scroll listening is used, a passive listener is the correct implementation and just wasn't available when the code was written.
This is proven by the article itself: the change was made in February of this year. Do you remember the internet breaking that day, and all of us rushing to update our event listeners? No, me neither. Did Chrome really break when the web when absolutely nothing broke?