Ask HN: How do you manage your life, which tools do you use?

I'm looking for a better way to organize my life. At first I started with multiple ToDo lists, and after a few years I switched over to Trello. I'm quite happy with it (well I'd like to self-host it, but didn't find a good solution), but I'm missing some features of a software project management tool like a better history, dependencies between issues, time tracking, fancy graphs and so on.

At the moment I'm seriously considering setting up a self-hosted Jira instance (for 10$ as I'm the only user) for tracking my personal life (short-term appointments, university assignments, ToDos for my homelab, random thoughts I want to look up later).

What are your tools and workflows to keep your life organized?