When I say "I should remember to", I immediately stop and use a Messenger bot I coded for that purpose
When my wife say "Can you remember to" I immediately ask her to put it into our shared calendar, or I add it to the same bot
When a coworker says "can you do X", we add it as a trello card with the appropriate priority
People start to get used to it, they probably assume that I have very bad memory or that I'm weird, and we make it work :-) I feel very light since I started enforcing these procedures