Aren't we discovering that our solar system isn't very "ordinary" at all after detecting that most of the systems with extra-solar planets are very different from us?
http://www.latimes.com/science/la-sci-earth-like-planets-201...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_potentially_habitable_...
https://www.universetoday.com/49605/how-common-are-solar-sys...
This article says we're definitely weirder, but points out that the detection technology matters, and we may not have the full picture yet: https://planetplanet.net/2016/07/12/exactly-how-unusual-is-o...
Until we start getting probes out to solar systems or have some way to detect orbits of planets that aren't perpendicular to our own we won't have much of an idea how weird we truly are or aren't.