Feed is indeed the big pain point. All good feeds have fish meal and GMO soybeans etc, and the only way to get a reasonable price point is by buying a 50lb bag from a farm supply store. With a 3 month shelf life, you need a lot of fish and a lot of time dedicated to feeding to not have spoilage.
Theoretically a true closed home system could be achieved by routing household urine to a green tank growing algae, solid waste and food waste to a black soldier fly larvae bin, and feeding the algae and larvae to the fish. The BSFL harvest themselves, and the green tank could be periodically pumped into the fish tank on a timer.
None of it would be terribly complicated to build into a new home, but there's no will to do so as most people would find it gross, preferring to eat artificially cheap fossil fuel fertilized products and have their waste magically disappear.
http://www.backyardaquaponics.com/forum is a tremendous resource.