It is possible some people belong where they are and relocation is a compromise for the weak at heart.
( I say this while also living in the epicenter of the Hepatitis A outbreaks, Downtown San Diego, California; I am surrounded by listless vagrants [ different than homeless ] )
* How is home more than a commodity (housing) for a person?
* What socialized costs occur when individuals and therefore their social/economic networks are disrupted by changes to cost of living?
I recently read an article linked on Hacker News about a woman who commutes 3 hours each way to work a government job in Los Angeles. She could get the same job in her home town, but it pays half as much, so she does the commute to send her kids to college. It sounds like the job is worth more than she's making at it, but the same job near her home doesn't pay enough to make it worth her while. If it did, likely LA would have to raise the wage for that position.
But I am in love with this area and I want to stay.
- Have always lived in california and
- have all their friends there
- family lives there
- are afraid of moving and starting completely new
- are introverts and would look at being lonely for several years before they would have some friends
- would mean they would have a long distance relationship with their gf/bf if she can't move/doesn't want
It's a bit easier if you're in your 20s, but harder later