[1] Former head of CIA: Huawei engaged in espionage for Chinese state:
https://www.csmonitor.com/Technology/2013/0719/Former-head-o...
[2] Huawei spied, US federal jury finds:
https://www.theregister.co.uk/2017/05/19/huawei_spied_us_jur...
[3] U.S. Suspicions of China's Huawei Based Partly on NSA's Own Spy Tricks
https://spectrum.ieee.org/tech-talk/computing/hardware/us-su...
I agree entirely with your point that there is fault on both sides here. That's precisely what makes it ironic (see [3], in particular!). A better analogy would be that Kid A is bullying Kid B, and in response, Kid B starts bullying back. Ideally, this causes Kid A to "get a taste of his own medicine" and stops bullying Kid B.
That's how I hope the situation will end up, at least.