After you start to hit many items on that list, though, some people box you in and hear impairment without objective evidence of it. I was seen by a counselor a few times for a witches brew of issues, mostly synonymous with being shy. She gave me the usual battery and picked up on my pervasive disorganization -- loses pencils, check, routinely avoids doing homework, check, not looking intimidating counselor in eye, check. She became convinced, quote, I would have no academic success without addressing my ADD. My mother explained that I had had straight As for my entire life and she wrote that off to "unusually good coping skills for his ADD"
I have one or two friends whose lives were very improved by medication, but the use of this diagnosis to label and crowd control scares me. And once you get it, that is the scarlet A. God bless my mother for keeping it out of my record. Otherwise, every paper I delivered late would have been because I was ADD. Bored in pre algebra because I had already solved systems of equations in two variables? ADD. Prefer reading books to group work? ADD.