I am in a similar boat and I've found the easiest solution is to just find a friend who is better at soldering and a case of beer.
Even with practice I'm orders of magnitude slower than people with steady hands.
Even with practice I'm orders of magnitude slower than people with steady hands.
The main thing I like about electronics is it makes me feel at home in a world of technology that's kinda crazy alien at least half of the time. Being able to interact with it in a proactive way makes it something I can get a grip on, even if, when we're frank, my soldering is shit.