Do you know people that think that 35mm is some sort of magical dimension or are you arguing that sensor size doesn't play into photography?
There's two things I love about 35mm - first, along with most numbers used in photography, it shows Americans can cope with (and indeed embrace) metric, and second the origin is a 'let's get 16 frames to the foot of motion picture film' arbitrary decision made in the late 1800's.
That it defines so many amateur photographers' desires 130 years later is perversely delightful.