> 9.5 Forgetting to Broadcast the Transaction in Time
> If one does not broadcast a transaction at the correct time, the counterparty may steal funds.
You need to be online all the time (or at least frequently enough) so that you can publish a penalty transaction if your counter party tries to steal coins from you.
These services won't actually hold your money, just a transaction that sends all the money to you if someone tries to cheat. It's more of an escrow service than a bank, but the escrow service again doesn't actually hold anything valuable.
You are talking about LN nodes, which work a bit differently than you seem to think it does.
For starters, anyone can "refuse" to open a channel with you, but they can't "refuse" to pass along a transaction (well they can, but because of the routing system used, you don't know where a transaction came from, or where it's going to, so they have no reason to refuse it). So if coinbase refuses to open a channel with me, I can still send money using coinbase as a middle "hop", and they would never know.
And KYC/AML laws aren't really applicable at this level in the stack. KYC laws apply regardless of what i'm buying/selling (in most cases). If I'm buying from best buy, they need to know who I am. That has nothing to do with how I'm paying, and the "middle hops" are like routers more than banks. Even if an internet router is sending a financial transaction, that doesn't mean they need to follow KYC laws. It's the same with LN, if your node is acting as a "hop" for a transaction, you don't know who or where the tx is coming from, or who or where it's going to, and it's counterparty risk free. It's more like an internet router than any kind of financial institution, so KYC laws don't apply.
* The time lock on commitment transactions is typically set to be a few days, so you don't need to be online "constantly." At most you need to check in about once a day.
* As the white paper says, you can delegate this function to a third party, without giving the third party the ability to steal your funds.
* If the other party tries to steal your funds and you catch him, you get to steal all of his funds. So in practice I don't expect this to be a common situation. If the other guy believes there's at least a 90 percent chance that you'll check the blockchain on any given day, then the expected value of broadcasting a revoked transaction is going to be heavily negative.
So a micro-transaction is a 10 cent payment that can turn into a 20 dollar fee plus 10 cent payment?