Current calculus education is like teaching kids about color theory, photons, how the eye works without just letting them fingerpaint. Those details will come, but the vast majority of people just remember calculus as a painful memorization exercise.
As an aside, e is the same way. Most people have it taught as an abstract limit concept: lim n->inf (1 + 1/n)^n without realizing it's actually about growth (and that's how it was discovered):
http://betterexplained.com/articles/an-intuitive-guide-to-ex...