> There is no need to win arguments.
This is the mark of someone who has figured out an incredibly valuable truth about interacting with people.
This is the mark of someone who has figured out an incredibly valuable truth about interacting with people.
I sympathise with the idea - but I think the problem is, a lot of the time opinions are a predicament, not a choice. Without consciously taking a position on a topic, you're often implicitly accepting various components of it - its logical dependencies, its framing of the problem, and so on.
My gut feeling is that people don't all have opinions ('everyone's a critic') because of widespread foolishness, but rather it's a basic characteristic and consequence of thought - just like you have to make assumptions to make a proof.