I think there's also some dislike of the project itself, or perhaps the people behind it. But that's another discussion.
> The problem are always an excessive centralisation of stewardship... which is kind of ironic coming from the guy who most strongly supported free software.
I don't think it's so much centralization of stewardship for technical decisions, but stewardship of the rights to the code; i.e. you need to sign copyright papers before committing non-trivial patches. And I can assure you that the FSF sees doing so as strongly supporting the cause of free software. There are obvious counterexamples (the Linux kernel's more lax Signed-off-by policy comes to mind), but there are reasons why this centralization is done.
I know this centralization causes problems. Getting assignment papers submitted if you are at a university is a pain; your employer may not be keen on signing them either. It'd be nice to see the process streamlined, or even banished entirely, but I doubt that's going to happen.
> I think it's got only itself to blame, and a certain type of elitist arrogance.
I'm curious where you think this "elitist arrogance" comes from or even what sort of behaviors you're referring to. Can you elaborate?