How about "[men] are conditioned to hide our mental health and true feelings/emotions"
[EDIT: why the downvotes, again?]
It is true that the political battle style of comment tends to get flagged and downvoted, because it's bad for the intellectual curiosity that HN exists for. But it's still possible to have thoughtful conversation about such ideas; it just unfortunately tends to degenerate quickly into not-so-thoughtful.