So I used Neo4j in 2011. It was very exciting at first, and then I got quite burned by it when I tried to make something real. Many people in this thread are describing a very different experience, and I want to know if it has really dramatically improved, or if the use cases of Neo4j users are just different from mine.

- In 2011, it worked great on small data that fit in RAM, but once the data became bigger than RAM, queries would take unexpectedly large numbers of seconds. How much data do you put into Neo4j?

- I admired the friendly little web server until I realized that it was a massive security hole: anyone who could access it could run arbitrary code on the server, it ran over plain HTTP, and if you put it behind an HTTPS proxy, it stopped working. I hope this isn't still the case. Does it have reasonable access control and HTTPS now? Could you use the Web interface in production?