There are people on the site where it makes absolutely no difference what I do, replying to them will go sideways. I make a mental note of those names and check for them and usually just don't reply to them. I don't need the drama.
Once in a while, that changes. But change is typically slow and involves gradually renegotiating the relationship. It takes two people working together to make that happen. It doesn't work for me to try to do that unilaterally. There has to be some signal from their end that we are both trying to sort this out.
It is uncommon to get such a signal from a person once there is a negative history.
In some cases I do look for specific people though, for example whenever I see a post on redis, I search for "antirez" (the author) because I want to see what he has to say on the topic. I typically never up/down vote in these cases.