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I suspect this only even approaches reality if by “intention” you mean “clumsily projected attitude”.
> The idea that there exist professional parents who explictly know what they are doing (with footnotes and sources) is a major conceit in our present culture.
The idea that parenting isn't a field which can be, and is, productively studied and that there aren't people who can provide useful guidance based on greater knowledge of that study and skill at observing and applying that knowledge is, itself, a major conceit in our present culture.