I'd start by not calling your own friends "conformist" and "lazy". And instead, try to understand where they come from.
We won't solve problems by shouting at each other.
We won't solve problems by shouting at each other.
I don't have lighter words, even if I consider them friends.
Moving on from grammar and culture (in my read, I wasn't offensive, merely stated a fact), what actual solutions, proposals, ideas, can you contribute?
Most people don't care for that kind of environment. And so we splinter, and wall off. We're using technological restrictions as a substitute for cultural norms. And so, my original statement still stands - if you want to change the situations, change what your norms are, and influence global norms that way.
They are lazy, that's the sad truth.
It's not that any of them are lazy. They simply have other priorities for what to do with their time, and other priorities for how a social network should work. To them, those alternatives don't provide the value that Facebook provides to them.
If you want to convince others to not use Facebook, I highly suggest you not fall into the trap of deciding that people who don't share your priorities are "lazy".
What words do you use to categorize/describe your lazy conformist friends?