Or maybe he's saying that access to his wife is dependent on the Goldman Sachs job.
If he loses the 20-factor-job he loses the 100-factor-wife.
If he loses the 20-factor-job he loses the 100-factor-wife.
I'm just saying that - to me - a job is just a means to some end. That end (for me) is providing for my family adequately. That I happen to enjoy what I do is an extra bonus. I'm just saying not to lose sight of why we do what we do. If you start placing too much importance on a job, you let your job define you. IMHO, it's much more empowering to remember that your job is just a tool like any other.
I purposefully got a job that really is "just" a job so I could not only put food on the table but be there to enjoy it as well.