Facebook? Instagram? Airbnb? We're talking about some of the most popular apps in the world. What exactly is your problem with them?
And according to their announcement post Litho is what they are using for their News Feed: https://code.facebook.com/posts/1187475984695956/open-sourci...
So the most critical part of the Facebook app isn't in React Native. How much of those other apps are actually using React Native?
The Android version is just RxJava, iirc, because of some performance issues they couldn't get around.
[0] https://blog.discordapp.com/using-react-native-one-year-late...