> Is this more Jordan Peterson, “woe is men” shit?

Acknowledging the existence of a problem affecting men?

> ... then that is their problem, as individuals ...

I agree, but the society needs to acknowledge that it actually IS a genuine problem for these men. We can then encourage the development and adoption of technological solutions, such as sexual VR and sexbots. It might not be the ideal solution for these men, but at least it's a solution (and it puts no responsibility on women to do anything).