No, this is generally not true.
Unless you're a public figure and only then in specific circumstances.
Almost nobody holds people accountable for what their friends do.
Bill Clinton's brother was a drug dealer.
Barak Obama's father was a kind of unsavoury deadbeat dad.
I suppose both of them would have had nary enough 'social credit' to become President.
Also - it's borderline shocking to hear a casual defence of this system. Theoretically yes, I can see a rhetorical argument, but in practice it's pretty scary. In America people do have 'credit scores' but that's generally a more open thing, and you still get to vote and ride the subway if you have low credit score.