Losing 100 pounds in 276 days
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For anyone else embarking on the journey, I would add a few things:
- When you are in caloric deficit and thus loosing weight, you can choose not to go to the gym, but you will lose muscle mass faster. If you want to maintain muscle mass as much as possible you are better off doing some weight lifting instead of running. You won't gain muscle mass, but you'll reduce the loss.
- Ghrelin is the hormone that you will need to control. It is what makes you hungry and ultimately ruins your diet. Funny enough, you control it by constantly eating low caloric foods. You want to eat a lot of veggies, fats (avocado will be your friend) and protein throughout the day in low amounts. Just stay under your target caloric intake.
- The most difficult part is not eating out. Meal preparation is key, and this takes time. When you eat out, you just don't know how people prepared the meal you are eating. Sadly, meals that you eat outside have a huge amount of oil and counting calories will be next to impossible most of the time. Even in the cases where a restaurant lists caloric numbers with their plates, you can be certain that the cook is less interested in your caloric intake and more in getting your order out the door. Six tablespoons of olive oil instead of the one you are counting and you are off for the day already. The best you can hope when eating out is maintaining weight.
- Your body is designed for homeostasis and will fight you back to get you to regain it (through Ghrelin, mood swings, etc). After loosing the target weight, increase your caloric intake to stabilize it. If you can keep your weight for a year, it will be easy to remain at that weight later on.
Good luck!
- If you are lifting weights at a decent intensity, as in squatting 80% of your bodyweight for an example, you WILL gain muscle mass if you are new to it despite a calorie deficit. Noob gains are a powerful thing. Most people just curl 5 lb dumbbells or do some other motion with a weight that is barely noticable.
- This guy was eating at a very unhealthy calorie deficit (1000). You should never go over 500 kcal deficit if you don't want to lose loads of muscle in the process. A calorie deficit as high as his is comparable to a crash diet, and is prone to result in a quick upswing in weight once the diet ends, as you will have been starving yourself.
Losing muscle mass is something you should always try to avoid (tolerable calories deficit+right amount of proteins+exercise). Muscle mass is hard to gain and serves a purpose in everyday life.
The next step on the author's journey to a healthy lifestyle should be to focus on macros and on the kinds of food he eats too, since both have implications on his body composition and general health.
Are you recommending this as an approach to avoid noob gains?
EDIT: Why the downvotes? I'm asking this as a legitimate question. The OP's tone sounds neutral and I can't tell if he is recommending low weight for muscle maintenance, or disparaging folks who do so for thinking they will gain muscle mass.
https://www.mensjournal.com/health-fitness/if-you-want-build...
> “Lift to the point of exhaustion and it doesn’t matter whether the weights are heavy or light.”
I mean to say that a lot of people will go to the gym to do "weight training" but will only use dumbells or machines, etc, at such low weights that the effort is mostly futile in terms of developing your muscles.
A good rule of thumb to go by is to use the maximum weight which you can successfully complete 8 - 12 repetitions of the motion without sacrificing good form (bad form will lead to injuries).
edit:
in response to a query of yours below, don't worry about accidently gaining strength if it is not your goal, it takes focused training to go up in strength. If you just want to maintain current muscle you just need to keep doing lifts with the weight you can manage 12 reps with. if you don't push to increase the weight from that point you will plateau at that point
It is not absolute that the "unhealthy" caloric deficit is daily basis. There are some researches[1] saying that you can lose fat mass while preserving (or even gaining) lean mass while fasting and doing workout.
1. https://translational-medicine.biomedcentral.com/articles/10...
Funnily enough, that is not true. A meta-analysis of 29 studies on the topic [1] has shown that:
"Successful very-low-energy diets (VLEDs) were associated with significantly greater weight-loss maintenance than were successful hypoenergetic balanced diets (HBDs) at all years of follow-up. The percentage of individuals at 4 or 5 y of follow-up for VLEDs and HBDs were 55.4% and 79.7%, respectively. The results for VLEDs and HBDs, respectively, were as follows: weight-loss maintenance, 7.1 kg (95% CI: 6.1, 8.1 kg) and 2.0 (1.5, 2.5) kg; percentage weight-loss maintenance, 29% (25%, 33%) and 17% (13%, 22%); and reduced weight, 6.6% (5.7%, 7.5%) and 2.1% (1.6%, 2.7%)."
Having a plan of what do do/how to eat post-diet (and avoiding binging back to your original weight) is more important than the way you lost your weight. The muscle mass loss is also not as dramatic as people might think, since less time spent in caloric deficit (because of the aggressive dieting) means that more time can then be spent in an anabolic state, and the muscle lost during the dieting phase can be regained very fast. Bearded wonder, powerlifter and now science-person Greg Nuckols had a small blog post on the topic five years ago: https://www.strongerbyscience.com/a-bit-of-everything/> "Successful very-low-energy diets (VLEDs) were associated with significantly greater weight-loss maintenance than were successful hypoenergetic balanced diets (HBDs) at all years of follow-up. The percentage of individuals at 4 or 5 y of follow-up for VLEDs and HBDs were 55.4% and 79.7%, respectively. The results for VLEDs and HBDs, respectively, were as follows: weight-loss maintenance, 7.1 kg (95% CI: 6.1, 8.1 kg) and 2.0 (1.5, 2.5) kg; percentage weight-loss maintenance, 29% (25%, 33%) and 17% (13%, 22%); and reduced weight, 6.6% (5.7%, 7.5%) and 2.1% (1.6%, 2.7%)."
That's a remarkable degree of loss to follow-up in the VLED group compared to the HBD group. Without further information, I would take great care in trying to interpret the results of the study - the 20% of VLED participants who did not show up could conceivably widen the confidence intervals, if not change the conclusions.
My point wasn't that VLED are superior to HBD, but that the "VLED necessarily causes rebound to original weight" is a myth. It can work and has worked for many people, provided a behaviour change is performed after the end of the dieting period.
Also, 1000 calories (per day) is definitely at the edge, but not crazy (7k / week, about 2lbs per week). I would say that is at the limit of what is medically advisable, but not crazy. Especially if you are above 250 lbs, that is not a crazy percentage of your weight. If you have enough body fat to lose, aim for something like a 1% reduction in body fat (assuming you are around 200 lbs, start at a lower percentage if you are heavier, no more than 2lbs / week no matter what). Then every few weeks you have to crank the dial down. Fat burns some calories to maintain itself and your body adapts and tries a little harder to hang onto energy stores. Dialing down the calorie deficit over a 18-12 month period in a very controlled fashion almost assures you will never "stall out" over the long run. Final random tidbit to share, use weight trend, not actual weight, to measure progress. Without an extremely consistent diet the amount of water your body caries can vary by several pounds, but trending the weight over a 1-2 week period almost assures you will measure actual progress and not how much water your body is holding a given day.
edit: clarity on deficit amounts.
Do you happen to know any more resources to tackle this? I'm trying to gain muscle and lose body fat, and it's been difficult diet wise. I even think I'm not eating enough sometimes.
Low carbohydrate/sugar diet seems to be at the core of all health advice today.
Not sure why this was not advised even in latest history.
As for why it's not in the article their focus was that whatever you do calories burned > calories eaten is the king and most diets are just ways to get people to restrict calorie intake without having to count.
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Low-carbohydrate_diet#Modern_l...
How I used homeostasis: I set myself a very rigid fixed diet and regimen - 1200kcal/day, almost all protein and green leaf vegetables, tiny portion of complex carbs (rice or potato), 45 minute run, 15 minutes of core training. Same routine, every day, same heart rate target (130) for the run.
The upshot was that my graph followed a really beautiful curve - to start with, weight fell off at a crazy rate - and as time went on it slowed, and slowed, and stopped. I then increased my calorific intake slowly over the same period I’d dieted for, while maintaining the regime.
I found the weight my body wants to be, which is pretty much smack in the middle of the healthy BMI range, 14% fat, and now maintain that without any real effort beyond noting when my weight starts to rise because I’ve been junking out on sugary crap, and cutting out the crap until I’m back to normal.
Agreed re: eating out - and the thing that had the biggest effect for me I think was cutting out booze. So many calories in a pint it’s not funny.
That's my emergency meal for lunch and dinner. I'm on a low carb diet, usually only have carbs in the morning (oatmeal), and fruit throughout the day.
Apart from that, I’m not sure what’s terribly bad about them.
That said, brining chicken prior to roasting is very common. I do it myself and it is almost essential for free range chicken which tends to have more blood near the bones, brining helps mitigate that. The other stuff is more or less just spice rubs. YMMV, depending on your supermarket. Roast chicken tends to go fast so I would be surprised if they need to use preservatives.
Is possible to cook for 4 in 15 minutes or less.
We start cooking at 12am for example, without know what exactly to do. Decide what to do is what consuming our time! After we start, only the most complex meal (traditional cooking) take more than 1 hour. When we wanna run, we run.
We try keto this few months and several of that things can be done faster than I expected:
Things that help:
- Knife(s) in good condition
- Anything that help you to slice veggies faster, like A ninja mixer (https://www.amazon.com/Kitchen-System-Blender-Processor-BL77...) I never imagine a gadget to be THIS good.
This help in make super fast condiments (like tomatoes + onions) that help in make things tasting.
Build a cache of condiments and things that give flavour is key to be faster the rest of the week. Put it in the freezer.
- Meat can be done in 6 minutes * 4 portions easily (BBQ style).
- Work in parallel. Plan the order of things:
- Juice first, so you can put it in the freezer.
- Then, veggies. Choping and mixing.
- Last proteins. Depending in what you is doing you need 15-6 minutes. If using oil, let it be hot! then put the protein.
With practique, is not uncommon to meet or exced the goal.
And when you do, make the best choices you can.
Whenever I get that feeling of "I can't eat my healthy lunch one more day" I order Chipotle tacos, no sour cream, no cheese, no soda, and no chips.
By ordering ahead I'm never tempted to say "yes" to chips and salsa, and I never get distracted and go to Sonic for a burger and tots instead.
You can definitely taste if a chef is adding 5 extra Tbsp of olive oil to 1 portion.
As long as you're weighing yourself and tracking calories, you'll know how accurate your estimates have been and you can adjust accordingly.
For restaurants that are listing calories, they might not always be accurate, but over time they should average out.
Also with fast food and fast casual restaurants, food assembly is so regulated, you be even more confident in the calorie count.
Fat has the highest calorie density of any ingredient with 9 calories per gram (sugar has 4). If you're really unsure, you can use that as an upper limit.
I personally have found that I do feel "run down" which turned out to be lower blood pressure. I attributed this to low sodium intake. So, I drink two very low sugar (6g) recovery drinks for my first caloric intake around noon.
One thing that wasn't covered, and likely isn't in many of these weight loss recaps, is not just caloric deficit; but also food content. Sugar's (and carbs) relationship to fat and our bodies cannot be understated. There's plenty of reading on how high sugar diets are detrimental. Here's an interesting listen: https://www.foundmyfitness.com/episodes/refined-sugar
This image alone scares the snot out of me: http://reachingutopia.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/sugar-i...
I think most people are aware of this in principle, but don't often associate normal foods as being high in sugar. Orange juice is probably the worst offender. All the sugar, none of the fiber.
I never believed that breakfast was "the most important meal of the day". IF success sort of supports this & the fact that it was mostly marketing.
And yes, it does seem to help burn a bit more fat than before - though I wouldn't call it life-changing.
That way you keep insulin under control for the 20 hours (out of 24). Your concentration and focus will increase very soon.
Even though I now rarely work out before going to work, I still start my day by drinking a glass of water and then a cup of coffee and it still feels good :) If you drink decaf, I think it would have no positive (but probably also no negative) effect.
It hasn't been life changing in itself, but I found it to be beneficial for keeping my body weight stable, which in turn improves a bunch of other health outcomes. It could just be placebo, but I feel much better with IF.
Does it really work? I don't know, the scientific evidence isn't that strong at the moment.
But it has convex outcomes: if it works, the upside is tangible... and if it doesn't, the downside is negligible.
I initially lost about 45 lbs (217 – 172) in about 10 months, but have since leveled out between 170-175. Beyond the weight loss, I noticed marked improvements in general energy levels, sleep quality, and chronic issues such as heartburn. More importantly though, I think the biggest adjustment that IF enabled me to make was transitioning into _wanting_ to eat healthy/whole foods and cut out foods with processed carbs and added sugar.
But I totally agree, there definitely is a psychological aspect of it, whether the improvements are quantifiable or not. Maybe the results are placebo, maybe it's confirmation bias, but I definitely think that IF allowed me to reframe the way I approach my diet, and eat in a way that is more attuned to being healthy.
Why?
edit: Your body also slows down its nutrient absorption rate during any exercise as it diverts blood to your extremities and core body functions. So digestion is more of a challenge.
Studies that show a drop in cardio performance from low-carb have been measuring in the adaptation period, before the body adapts to low-carb performance.
I can't remember the exact time period, but it only takes a few weeks to fully adapt to low/no carb diet where your body gets good at making energy from fat. The actual chemical process is really cool.
You definitely lose your ability to do high performance shorter events at the peak of your body's capability (5K/10K, etc.). It is simply a less efficient process of creating the primary fuel your cells use to do their thing.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/the-running-blog/20...
“If you’re going to run a marathon under two hours and 10 minutes, then yes, you probably need lots of carbohydrate to be able to perform to such an intense level of activity, but once you’re slower than two and a half hours, I’m not really convinced you do.”
Adaptation periods are probably 6 weeks, possibly longer to fully adapt, though adaptation appears progressive.
And training low-carb can have benefits even if racing carb-loaded.
There are lots of studies showing a performance decrease during within those early few weeks of the adapatation process, but they aren't really showing the fully adapted, optimized state.
However, when your glycogen stores are depleted, your body is more able to make effective use of consumed carbohydrates (storing them in muscles), so shortly after exercise is probably the best time to eat carbs.
But it's really easy to go overboard.
I don't eat breakfast per se, just a protein shake but I found it difficult to cut out for a number of reasons.
A couple of months ago my wife and I started doing a weekly 24h fast on Sundays from breakfast Sunday to breakfast Monday. The first couple of times it was a bit of struggle but now we don't really notice anymore.
Whatever fits your lifestyle is the way to go, otherwise it's always going to be a struggle to maintain.
What about dairy products (like milk) etc?
I've found it has worked wonders for resetting my relationship with hunger; I feel I'm far less susceptible to boredom hunger in the few days immediately after the fast, something I'm hoping will progressively improve further.
Honestly, we haven't found it that hard at all. The first two weeks were a bit of a struggle just because you aren't used to going that long without food, but now it's just the day we don't eat and we don't really pay it much attention past that.
So I guess it's a habit thing. Once you make a habit of it, you just stick to it.
- No obvious impact on rate of weight loss.
- I do seem to be getting better sleep at night.
She's also not a fan of drinking coffee during your fasting period, and she believes that breaks the fast because the liver metabolizes the caffeine. So that starts the metabolic process in the body, taking you out of the fasted state.
Most people skip breakfast, like I do. It's easier for busy people to skip breakfast. I think it depends on the person's schedule. I skipped breakfast before and tried skipping dinner. Both methods work well. Skipping dinner does make me bored at night. I had all this free time not having to cook or eat. That could be an advantage for some people.
Madness, I tell you.
Good luck and have fun with the intermittent fasting :)
Far and wide the best ground advice you can give yourself and others is to work out - that'll do good things to you, even if you can do it a little. Other than that, eat a moderately varied set of foods. Anything further than that is usually just something someone came up with in the shower and that other people thought sounded real good.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-R-eqJDQ2nU
Dr. Panda goes into detail about fasting and coffee. Great podcast about fasting.
Intermittent Fasting Confers Protection in CNS Autoimmunity by Altering the Gut Microbiota
https://www.cell.com/cell-metabolism/fulltext/S1550-4131(18)...
doesn't sound like a real thing...
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/2016/03/12/fasting-for-t...
A high fat diet will do a lot to make a caloric deficit a matter of habit, and not iron-strong will :)
Intermittent Fasting and low-carb high-fat food can readily sustain 16-20 hour fasts without the hunger or cravings. It's also really satiating when you do start eating.
And it was easier than I thought - a piece of fruit for breakfast, a small lunch (single sandwich, down from two with crisps and chocolate bar on top some days), and a normal evening meal. That would come to around 1500 calories or less a day, easily enough to lose a few pounds a week. It becomes easier as time goes on - your body expects less, I guess. And you do gravitate towards healthier food, simply because you can eat so much more of it.
I've lost two and a half stone since then (I don't follow the diet at weekends so I could have lost more) and am back in the green. Not as much as the article's author - his loss was spectacular!
Alas I did not take a before and after picture, though others have commented, which feels good.
So yeah, great article that I can fully endorse, and encourage others to follow. Just set realistic targets, change will come eventually.
Are there any similar apps which store the data locally?
For example: https://www.theverge.com/2018/3/29/17177848/under-armour-myf...
We are working on syncing across devices though so at some point we'll add a way to create an optinal account.
https://github.com/wcochran/calfoo
I just create my own "refrigerator" by manually adding foods I eat (no bar code scanner or online database).
BTW, someone actually took forked my code and placed a version in the App store without ever asking me. I was sort of dumbfounded that someone would do this.
In contrast, if you had put an open source license on it, then anyone would be well within their rights (assuming the license allows it) to compile and release a version to whatever app store they want.
This is actually potentially untrue, as some versions of the GPL require that the end user must not be restricted wrt the app they download, and that's not compatible with the Apple's store requirements. See e.g. https://apple.stackexchange.com/questions/6109/is-it-possibl...
Besides that, I wrote a small JS script that allows me to input various foods along with their respective protein/fat/carb macro ratios that I then combine into meals along with a few helper functions that print the total calories based off the macros. It's nothing special but it gets the job done and I don't have to worry about signing up for yet another app or getting bogged down by a bunch of features I don't care about. I'd be happy to push it and a link to the spreadsheet up to a repo if anyone else would be interested in using them.
I'm 14% BF and a BMI of 20... looks to be right on point.
Ancestor post was referring to either percentage of total body mass as fat, or percentage of lean mass. Both are dimensionless, as kg/kg cancels out.
As such, if the 12% was % of lean mass, that would be 10.7% of total body weight. If it was 12% of total body mass (more likely), that would be 13.6% of lean mass. Either way, that's classified as "very lean".
Better measurements exist, but for most collecting the data needed is complex (and the impedance measuring ones aren't reliable). If you have a suggested alternative I'd welcome reading about it.
Waist to Height ratio is AFAIK the best "simple but data supported" measure: https://qz.com/1002707/bmi-calculators-arent-accurate-but-ou...
BMI is an aggregate metric that has been misapplied to individuals.
Due to the averaging effect, it's a pretty decent predictor for groups, but due to variation within groups, it's not going to predict that well for all individuals (except for individuals who are close to the average of the group).
Nick Trefethen from Oxford:
I found a guy in my city doing DXA scans for $80, I usually go get one done every six months or so.
Obviously there are better tools, but none of them are so easy to measure.
The hard part for me is mindset and willpower. Unfortunately, knowing the physics* behind weight loss doesn't make it any easier, and perhaps might make it more stressful. Why can't I do this simple thing that logically is as complex as 2+2. Our minds have their own prerogatives.
I wonder then what did you tell yourself? How many times did you have a bad day? What was your mood like throughout? I'd love to know so much more about the psychology. Great article though and thanks again for sharing!
I envy people who don't know what it is like to feel compelled to gorge themselves. It's an unstoppable force sometimes. You'd be amazed at what your mind will do to make you ingest more calories.
And then you get on the internet and, in addition to all the "it's really simple, just eat fewer calories" idiots, there's a thousand know-it-all fucks trying to tell you that if you just follow their fad diet you'll never feel hungry again and your dick will grow three sizes and you'll win the lottery.
Easy to prescribe, tricky to implement judging from the state of the world.
There is a part of my brain that, usually around 1030 at night, says, right eat everything in the immediate vicinity because it might vanish / get eaten by sabre-tooth tigers, just be taken away from you.
It's so deeply wired in me i actually resent (no deeply hate) the food industries that take advantage of my biology.
I think the only hope for health care costs to be brought back to earth is to treat most foods like we treat alcohol or tobacco - chocolate bars that cost the same as a bottle of whiskey, sugar eating areas away from other parts of restaurants, cities that revolve around walking not driving,
It's wholesale chnage - and no please don't throw the nanny state argument at me - look at the Libertarian party (Their presidential candidate suggested it would be a good idea to have a driving license ... got crucified) We live in a nanny state and most people don't think it's sane to leave
Even keeping just enough food in my house for a week's worth of meals (I only eat one, lunch) only works in combination with an appetite suppressant, otherwise I'll find excuses to bake bread or elaborate confections or something. And attending any social function where food might be present is extremely dangerous and to be avoided if at all possible.
100% true for me as well. If it's there I can and will eat it, sometimes past the point of feeling sick. "You ate that whole pint of ice cream in one sitting??" No, you don't know about the other pint of ice cream that I ate a few hours ago and didn't say anything about because of guilt.
Food cravings, hunger pangs, insatiable demands to scarf things: that's often the dark side of an insulin cycle where carbohydrates play a determinative role. But barring issues better treated with psychiatry, most people aren't going to feel the urge to snack after eating a soup-bowl worth of butter...
Its mildly nauseating to eat too much fat. Eliminating insulin spikes makes appetite control 100 times easier. Every body is different, but if you might want to consider a (low carb) high-fat diet for a while.
Also: eating once a day is a bad habit unless you're working things correctly. Maybe check out the "OMAD" (one meal a day), types to see how they're eating? High fat generally plays a role there, too, for satiation and energy reserves.
I have eaten entire 24 ounce jars of peanut butter in one sitting, blocks of cheese, cans of nuts, whatever. It doesn't matter what I'm eating at all. It is endlessly irritating that people like you keep insisting you know more about how my body works than I do.
Dietary fat causing satiation is hardly "internet know-it-all" and has anything to do with keto in an of itself. The keto diet does encourage other dietary habits that enhance and strengthen the satiation of those goods fats to control and mollify the specific appetite problem you are discussing. It's a system of effects that specifically addresses that urge (https://paleoleap.com/dietary-fat-and-satiety/).
Not a single example you have retorted with points to anything other than poor blood sugar regulation, poor dietary habits, and insufficient fat in your standard diet (which is totally different than binging on something fatty, in the presence of your admittedly poor diet). You are Doing It Wrong.
A whole thing of peanut butter is not going to avoid the insulin spikes. A whole thing of nuts is not sufficient by itself and likely were nuts with the wrong macros. Cheese is nice, but single source foods are not how you should be eating as a grown up, and that habit is causing the problems (says you).
"It doesn't matter what I'm eating at all" contradicts observable research in every aspect of medicine, basic biology, and the standard model. You're whining from ignorance.
Late night snacking has always been my personal achilles heel...
A high-fat diet -- say, steak tacos with avocado sauce in cheese-tortillas -- can do a lot to mitigate snackiness. So instead of a late night chocolate bar, maybe try eating half a pack of bacon and see how you feel... Or an extra half-pack of bacon with your last meal so your appetite calls it quits for a few hours extra...
Within the same caloric footprint, and the hard suffering of eating bacon, I think it's possible to radically reshape your appetite towards more satiating foods that don't leave you snacky. And if you're like me, cutting out the snacking is most of the caloric control you need.
Cons: have to cut carbs so you don't balloon, natural progression towards keto. Pros: less snacky; red wine, whiskey, and bacon as part of a 'weight loss' regimen.
At the end of the day, if you're hating every minute of it, there's very little likelihood you'll keep with your programme. So do whatever you need to do in order that you enjoy yourself whilst doing it, and results will follow :)
1 - Arrange a regular workout with friends / a personal trainer. Once you're in the habit of exercising regularly, it gets much easier. And putting it off becomes harder thanks to someone else expecting you to turn up.
2 - Take something you really like (food, movies, etc.) and commit to yourself that you'll only do that thing after you've exercised to make it more appealing.
Was in the same boat until I started doing group classes. Used that to build accountability, motivation, and a "vocabulary" of how the gym works. Now I could spend hours at the gym by myself and love it. Find what works for you, cuz lifting is a blast!
TFA notes that they didn't exercise (that they tried but didn't stick).
Ideally you'd combine exercise and calorie counting, but for nerds calorie-counting makes the diet into a numbers game which can be a great motivator on its own.
*If you're weightlifting HEAVY 2-3 hours a day 6 days a week or running marathons every weekend, then you are burning enough calories to enter a deficit. Otherwise: your workout is burning fewer calories than there are in a banana.
The problem I have with exercising is that it makes me really hungry causing me to overeat. If Im exercising 4 days a week, it isnt a problem. But if Im only doing 2 times a week, it is better to not exercise at all.
Skipping dinner works for me (I eat breakfast around 8, lunch at 2, and late snack around 6) except my family wont let me skip dinner. When I used to travel for business it worked and I was able to get down to 165.
Ive been stuck at 175 (5' 9") for a long time, I just downloaded myfitnesspal and will try that. I do like low carb because it reduces the hunger I feel making it much easier to follow reduced calories.
I'd been counting calories for a couple months and dropped about 8 pounds (which is good), but slow. My self-control was 'meh'.
Got Beat Saber two weeks ago. I love music, and apparently I love dancing. Kept tracking calories. Down another 8 pounds in those two weeks. I've been playing about 30-60 minutes a day, and with my average heart rate (at a safe level) and weight, I should be burning ~400-1000 calories in those sessions.
I understand a lot of that is water weight from working out, but I'm also keeping my calories in check WAY more easily. My graph from those two months of calories consumed was spiky with missing days (out of shame, not willing to enter them in). After starting with Beat Saber, my graph is incredibly consistent within ~200 calories, and always at or below my goal.
Having an understanding of what 500 calories actually means in terms of effort helps me mentally connect that with the value of eating that extra 500 calories. It's some kind of connection that doesn't exist when I'm not physically active and tracking calories.
Side note, I only keep track of my calories "burned" out of curiosity. Fitness trackers are notoriously unreliable overall, but it's motivating. I do NOT eat more calories based on activity done, which is a recipe for disaster IMO.
Exactly right. Losing weight by counting calories is an almost entirely mental activity, not physical. We have a physiology that wants food and abhors not eating enough.
> I wonder then what did you tell yourself?
Like the author, I discovered counting calories a couple of years ago, after trying and failing to lose weight through exercise for 20 years.
I do have some mental tricks that worked for me.
Number one: the reason I got overweight is because I’m mis-calibrated. When I feel full, it’s because I already ate too much. What I need to do is re-calibrate to understand what “enough” is. By assigning a negative judgement to feeling full, and seeking the feeling of enough, it helps remove the idea that I just need willpower to overcome any hunger. A little bit of hunger (but not a lot) is a good thing, so I want to stay there.
Number two: I set my calorie budget to my future weight, not my current weight with minus a thousand. This is a “set it and forget it” plan. I want to calibrate my normal eating for the rest of my life, not diet for a month or two and then regress. I also don’t want to make adjustments when I’m done, I want to act like I’m already done. If I want to be 180lbs, and I should be eating 2k calories when I’m 180lbs, then I just start doing that and my weight will trend toward 180lbs. This takes longer than having a larger deficit, but mentally I don’t need to care how long it takes. I spent decades overweight despite trying, a couple extra months losing weight more slowly is nothing, it’s way ahead of where I was before.
Third, I also save some budget in my day for a treat at the end of the day. It leaves me just a tiny bit hungrier, but then when I get my treat it feels like I’m splurging.
Fourth, I still exercise. To lose weight fast I don’t count my exercise as calories burned. In maintenance mode, I use my exercise as a way to earn more calories. Now I’m actually going to the gym not to lose weight, but so I can eat more!
I had days where I went over, but I didn’t really have “bad” days or bad moods, it was never severe. It was more like go to a party when I’m not counting, and whoops, I’m 400 calories over my budget.
The hardest part about counting calories is the first few days. That’s when hunger is worst. After the first week, my body adjusts and my appetite goes down.
I had my “come to Jesus” moment about 3 months ago, at the green age of 39. I’ve since lost 10kg (1.5st or 22lb) and counting.
I am never hungry, I removed all starches and cheese from my diet and the stomach is now silent 100% of the time. I still have the occasional “fuck it, the world hates me, I want a pizza so bad”, but I learnt to manage it: when I feel angry or bored (my triggers), I get my mind busy with something else, anything really (from sudoku to programming, going for a walk with a podcast, or painting miniatures). After a few minutes the impulse is gone. I cheat once or twice a day, in small quantities and in a controlled fashion: knowing the worst time is right after a cheat, I make sure to be very busy and plan follow-up snacks with nuts, to slowly ease off the starch-induced crave.
Another trick is to metabolise the concept that the corporate world tries really really hard to sell you food; when you really start to see that it’s all a way to screw you out of your money, it gets easier to say “no thanks”.
First it was to not enter in a willpower fight. I did accept that I will fail, and I did fail many times (sorry did not count, often in the beginning and I was still failing from time to time until the end). But every time i failed, instead of giving up i was telling to myself "ok you failed, but it worked for X days, you trained your body to eat less, let's start again, it will be more easy this time." And it was true. With time your body require less food to fill "full" even when you fail.
Also a lot of ppl here are talking about fasting. I'm not sure about it at all. Your brain may try to prevent the next "fasting time" and may try to trick you to eat more. I would advise to eat at very regular times so your brain "knows" when you will eat (for me: 6:00/12:00/19:00 +/-30mins). Take time to eat, move in another place, etc ... so you appreciate it more.
I liked the cheat days principle because it gives you short term goals, and it helps to keep some pleasure eating food. It also helps to not bring your diet with you when you go to lunch with friends/family. I also noticed that with time I was cheating less during these days.
Preparing food for myself also saved money, sometimes it helped for motivation.
There are a lot of varieties of 'fasting'.
Intermittent Feeding or 'Time Restricted Eating' involve upping dietary fat to control hunger feelings and ensuring daily caloric needs are met within a shorter timespan. This leaves the body enjoying 'fasting' benefits for longer while enjoying a normal diet.
I don't really think this is consistent. Basically yes if you eat less calories than are used you must lose weight, but the ease of doing this depends on what you are eating.
The devil is in the details.
Sure the rule is simple: Calories in == Calories out
But you need to find out rather exactly how much you really burn, it's often less than you think.
And then you have to eat stuff that doesn't fill your daily calories with one meal, or else you will crave more later that day.
I know you can use a food scale to get a more accurate estimate of calories in but I'm still at a loss to determine an accurate estimate of calories out.
The trick IMO is to simply eat the same thing every day. That way you can remove things as needed to maintain weight loss. But, also adjust based on what you actually eat not just your goals.
And die from boredom removing the problem of obesity completely ...
Everyone has the right to choose which kind of cost they are willing to endure in order to lose weight - this includes refusing to pay any cost at all (and not losing weight).
Nothing comes for free.
Calorie counting works and eating fewer calories than you burn is the only way to lose weight. Far too many people start exercising a bit, continue to eat in the manner they've become accustomed to, and wonder why they don't lose weight. It's not rocket science; you just need to eat less and (probably) eat better.
Counting calories doesn't really work. What's working is restricting insulin in your system which allows your body to burn fat. When you have insulin it's impossible to burn fat.
Suggest having a ready of some of Gary Taubes and something like https://www.dietdoctor.com/first-law-thermodynamics-utterly-...
It is, for the most part, but you're right; insulin spikes are a problem and you should not be gorging yourself on simple carbohydrates when on a diet. Of course, protein and fats can also contribute (ask any keto fan), so you have to eat in moderation and be mindful of your macros.
>Counting calories doesn't really work
Utter and complete nonsense. I have been actively monitoring and modifying my weight via calorie counting for more than two decades. I started boxing at 10, playing football and wrestling at 13, and to this day I still count calories and strength train at an intermediate competitive level ('competitive' in terms of what I lift in the big three at my weight, not to imply that I actually compete.)
I have helped many other people lose weight via calorie counting. It works, and to claim otherwise is simply ignorant. Of course quality of food is the next subject you broach with anyone trying to lose weight. No one should expect to lose weight and be healthy by eating 1200 calories of cake and another 500 in potato chips each day.
When you eat good food (increase your fat and protein as a % of your macros, stay away from processed sugars/carbs, increase your intake of vegetables, etc.) and limit calorie intake you lose weight. Speaking to most people in terms of insulin is a waste of time. They have no simple way to measure that, but if they eat under maintenance and eat generally good food they _will_ lose fat, and that's the goal.
It's simply a lot easier to tell someone to watch their calorie count and eat good food than it is to tell them to monitor their insulin levels. They get the second bit right if they do the first.
That's the opposite of the diets goals, is an easy issue for people to incur while thinking they're on track, and keto can make you more susceptible to GNG :)
Sausage and cheese is totally kosher: in moderation, ideally beside some leafy greens.
That is why it is important to keep protein under a certain threshold when on keto.
The other challenge is estimating how many calories you burn each day. There can be a large variation in resting metabolic rate let alone how many calories you burn with exercise.
These aren't accurate at all. How would they be? All they have to work with is height, weight, and BPM.
https://www.reuters.com/article/us-health-fitness-tracker-ac...
Disclosure: I work for Fitbit, but don't speak for Fitbit.
I concede that Garmin integrates with chest straps that are more accurate, but who's going to wear one of those for around-the-clock calorie counting?
I realized that what I eat is fairly stable. There may be 20 different things I eat regularly. Eventually, I started memorizing the most often used ones.
I noticed that there is a pattern to which types of foods have what amounts of calories. For example, fresh fruit and many non-starchy veggies tend to be at around 50kcal/100gr. Starchy veggies got for about 100kcal/100gr. Meats are at around 250kcal/100gr. And so on. Using this, I was able to get estimates for things I don't eat often without needing to Google everything. I did look up things I ate a few times in order to test my estimates.
It is not super-accurate. However, writing it down is more important that writing it down accurately to the last calories.
Many parts of this process were not accurate. I weighed things roughly using an analog scale. I often estimated portion size by eye, as I got a sense of how much 200grams of meat is. I counted the calories using estimates a lot of time. It worked nonetheless.
After 6 months, my weight loss vs. estimated weight loss from calories spreadsheet was within 1kg! I was blown away by how close this was. It makes sense since things like your base metabolic rate and actual calories expenditure also varies, so super-accurate record keeping of food-in was not necessary.
You're right that being off by 100 calories systematically will force a bias. The trick is to be off in one direction one day, and in the other the other day. This way, the error mostly cancels out.
Measure your weight. Track your calorie consumption for N days, then measure your weight again. Then use the 3500 calories per pound conversion to figure out what calories out must have been to cause that.
For example, if over 30 days you ate 2000 calories per day and lost 3 pounds, then you must have burned 3500 * 3 excess calories total. That averages out to 350 calorie deficit per day, so your calories out must have been 2350.
Or if you ate 2000 calories per day for 30 days and your weight remained the same, then your calories out was 2000 as well.
I've been calorie counting for a long time (initially to lose weight, now just habit), and I do this sort of calculation every month or two in order to maintain my weight within a ~5 pound range.
I tried that too. Lost 7lbs in 7 days and then a few more. I regularly skip breakfast, but to really make it work skipping lunch and keeping eating to a 4-hour window was really effective. I need to do some more of that. And it does reduce your appetite after a few days.
I can completely believe that helped in his endeavour.
Plus some people I trust said it was “good for your health”, so I didn’t bother to look further and just took their word for it.
Most of the intermittent fasters I've been following aren't going through some masochistic daily hunger-torture. They're just eating more "paleo" or "keto" so their diet is ripe with dietary fat. That makes going from three smaller, to two larger, or even a single huge meal a matter of habit that can be changed in a couple weeks.
It's also unproblematic to "cheat" on the fast when need arises. The idea is just to clock as much 'fasted' time as pragmatic.
It's way to easy to lose those 5 pounds, get "stuck", and get frustrated.
Also, of course, even a modest amount of exercise will kick off metabolic processes that speed up weight loss, not mentioning that increasing muscle mass will naturally increase the basal metabolic rate. Weight lifting routines like 5x5 or Greyskull LP can be squeezed into 20-30 minutes every other day, and provide lasting benefits almost immediately.
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> I never understood how simple it was before starting this.
Sounds so trivial, but sadly true for a lot of things in life. You read and hear something multiple times, but you have to make the experience yourself to get your eyes opened.
Yet somehow, billions failed, fail and will fail spectacularly.
Also, eating.. pickiness too. I don't mind leftovers, hell I don't even mind eating the same thing for a week, two, etc. She hates leftovers and always wants freshly cooked. Also rotating food types, as it can't be too similar to what she ate recently.
All combined it means that finding hearty meals (and now keto for us) are more effort for her than for someone like me. To no surprise, I have no weight to lose (I need to workout to even maintain weight), but it really frustrates her at how different our bodies are.
She considers her food habits to be an "addiction" in large part due to how different her and my reactions are to food. Her struggles are far more than mine on this front.
For me, it is that simple. My point was that for my wife, there are a ton of other considerations she deals with. Sure, they're mainly in her head (though possibly other factors such as gut biome play a role), but large she has more details to factor in when she thinks about "will I be able to do this?". I on the other hand don't. For me, it's exactly as the author described, simple.
Yes, simple does not mean easy, but saying quitting smoking is simple to a smoker is not an honest assessment of their situation.
Most things in life are simple if you ignore reality and speak of life from a bubble.
Somebodies reaction to a hard thing may be complex, but that is more about them than the thing. Although as you note, there is a risk of oversimplifying (e.g. your example of possible implications of gut biome, but that doesn't really shift the fundamentals).
The reason I think this distinction is a good one to make is the problem with the converse. If something being hard implies it is complex, it will lead often to people generating extraneous complexity around it which makes it actually more difficult for the people involved, and can lead to very convoluted thinking and errors in that thinking. You need only look at the massive industries built around things like weight loss and quitting smoking to see examples of this (not that everything in those industries is nonsense, but they do contain a lot of profitable nonsense).
This had nothing to do with bubbles. The risk is that instead of supporting people in doing a hard thing, we raise false hope of making it easy.
That's why I felt my situation and my wife's differed. Mine was simple because there wasn't an underlying pile of complexity. Her underlying "addiction" and etc are noteworthy items in her list of things she needs to do. It's simple if you ignore the problems, but if she wants to actually implement that simple instruction she needs to figure out the little details that affect her.
So yes, it is simple if we're not talking about her situation with context and reality. Mine is simple in all contexts, in my opinion.
Smoking is a good example imo on where our opinions differ. Smoking is super far simple in my mind, because many people can't just stop smoking (or rather, lack the willpower). So they need additional data, the simple instruction was.. imo, not so simple.
You are basically promoting the idea that I am rejecting, that because people find things difficult and have a lot of complicated reactions to it, that means the underlying problem is itself must be complex. I don't believe that is either true or useful, and argue that it can often make the problems themselves worse by muddying the water.
Some problems are complicated but relatively easy. In this case, if you just find "the right trick" you can solve it without much difficultly. We do people a disservice when we pretend that simple-but-hard problems are actually complicated-but-easy. This is something that is often done, for commercial gain, in industries like weight loss and smoking cessation. At core, I am arguing that this is a bad thing.
At any rate, we've probably reached diminishing returns here.
I did that for 2 years, and afterwards I developed an aversion to eating, I just got so sick of having to gorge myself at every meal, and never being able to go more than a few hours without thinking about food.
I'm the type of person Soylent advertises to. I even made my own for a ~year. Keto (mostly low carb for me, not keto) has been a massive boon though. Fats just leave me so much more sated and stable. I highly recommend it if you don't like to eat or want to eat more dense meals.
"You can't tell people anything" https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=17384703
>There’s a lot of “science” that say low insulin levels in the fasted state lead to more fat burning.
That "science" he smirks at is the research primarily of Dr. Jason Fung, who specializes in diabetes and obesity. He wrote a book called the obesity code that advocates for intermittent fasting. I think I'll take the word of a man who has spent hours researching and analyzing over the snarky comments of some software engineer.
Some more examples: > If you’re in a caloric deficit this will happen anyways.
That's not true. I could eat a reduced caloric deficit of bread every day and still not burn fat. The basis of intermittent fasting and the ketogenic diet is to force your body to break fat for energy as opposed to carbs. They take different approaches, but the end result is the same - to lower the amount of insulin. Keto is bit more restrictive in food because so much of the carbs in out food is sugar.
So, why did achieve results? Easy:
> I naturally started eating healthy foods because I could eat more of them. If you eat a chocolate bar, you will still be hungry. For the same amount of calories, you could eat a few bowls of vegetables and be full. That said, the best part about this overall approach is that you can still eat whatever you want – just count the calories.
There's a wide difference between how your body reacts to 100 calories of chocolate bars (sugar) and 100 calories of broccoli (fiber).
This is more junk science and using anecdotal data as opposed to research and science. If you want to lose weight, what you eat is just as important as how much you eat. End of story; caloric restriction alone isn't enough. However, this article is also incredibly short sighted. Losing weight is very much like getting married. People focus on the event and not the afterwards. You can't modify your diet, hit your target weight, and then stop. You need to keep going; fighting obesity is life long battle. I believe the majority of people who lose weight will regain that weight within 7 years. There's horror stories from the biggest loser.
My story, by the way, is that when I got married, I was 280 lbs. One night, I remember coming home from my in-laws house and deciding I was tired of being fat. I changed my diet. I cut out chips and soda at lunch and put in carrots and water. I stopped eating white bread and pasta in favor of whole grain foods. I cut the number of nights I had dessert to 1 to 2 a week. I picked up regular exercise. I tracked and measured my food. It worked. At my lowest, I was ~170 lbs. It's gone back up to 203 right now, but that's because I'm currently focusing on strength training. I will say that eating less is not enough. You have to pick the right food. As a friend of mine once wisely said, you simply cannot outwork a crappy diet.
So the same calorie diet and the same amount burned can behave differently at storing fat because of a small pill. This for me flies in the face of calories in/calories out. A pill, or insulin can really screw that up.
I've started trying intermittent fasting and low carb/high fat so far I'm amazed at how much energy I have. Still early days and I have a few old habits to kick. But it's definitely going in the right direction.
That "science" he smirks at is the research
primarily of Dr. Jason Fung
Don't about 50% of diet books follow the diet-advice-from-a-doctor cliche?Like the books you can get from Dr Rupy Aujla, Charlotte Markey PhD, Dr Arthur Agatston, Dr Clare Bailey, Dr Xand van Tulleken, Dr Michael Mosley, and Dr Aseem Malhotra?
> "Everything I wrote above is what worked for me – that is not to say it will work for everyone. I am also not a doctor, I’m an engineer, so none of this is medical advice – please consult your doctor."
This is just a person who wants to show HOW they did it. You can read all the scientific papers you want, but ultimately you have to put that knowledge into practice. You'll find that people have lost weight in various ways, including what you call "unscientific" or bro-science.
We have a very fuzzy understanding of human metabolic pathways, and an incomplete knowledge of their interactions with each other. If you want to dismiss somebody's data you have to first understand and explain the data, and then add your point of view.
Its a bit like telling Usain bolt hes doing it wrong because he has technical imperfections in his form, but meanwhile hes still winning races.
1) Low carb 2) Caloric restriction (CICO)
On both I lost weight. On CICO I still ate "less healthy" foods (processed, breads, fast food, desserts) quite often but kept within a certain calorie range. Neither weight loss involved exercise. I'm convinced #1 was just a fancy way to acheive #2. Were there separate benefits to #2? Yes (less cravings) but not enough to convince me to go back to it. Low carb is too difficult to stick to for me personally, have tried it numerous times (no need to give me advice on how to make it work for me, I'm losing weight on CICO right now and fine with that!)
Why would both work if CICO is bunk?
However, if I'm not mistaken, you've lost weight, gained, and lost it back again, right? The so-called yo-yo effect, another harbinger of people who only do CICO. The vast majority of people who lose weight regain it back within 5 years. As someone who kept it off for a decade and only started gaining it back when I start taking my resistance training a lot more seriously, I can say that if I only did CICO, I would not have kept it off. The only way to take off weight and keep it off for long periods of time is to change what you eat, get regular exercise, and know this is something you will be doing for the rest of your life.
CICO has been the easiest to "stick with", I can fulfill my cravings without regaining, because I'm not truly cutting anything out, just having less. When I want unhealthy snacks, instead of eating a bag of doritos, a fudge round, and a swiss roll, I have just the doritos and that's it. Moderation is key. I got to the point where I was basically bingeing food and not caring, which is a bad spot to be in.
The only reason I fell off of CICO once before was absolutely a decision on my part to "screw it, gonna eat what I want and however much I want because I love food, life is short" and really had nothing to do with regular here-and-there cravings. It was a conscious choice of food over health, as bad as that is. Before I made that choice, under CICO, I lost 40 pounds and kept that 40 pounds off with no problem, super easy to maintain.
Yes, I will admit that CICO causes me occasionally to choose a healthier food, because they're much less calorie dense- but day-to-day I still have bread, pasta, fruit, and sometimes dessert. I just add in some good, less dense things along the way, and overall eat less, while still enjoying it all. Seems to work. I guess time will tell, eh? :)
The trick that gets people, I imagine, is that you really can't eat very much of it all, especially as I've gotten older. You have to be willing to eat rather small portions, and rather infrequently.
Thankfully, I like plenty of non-dense foods too and can adjust the balance without cutting any desirable foods completely
It's often not that trivial, nor true. There's a ton of litterature on the subject, here is an articla I like:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2015/07/28/why-t...
A good quote:
> The much bigger mistake Wishnofsky made was misunderstanding how our bodies react to weight loss. As soon as we start cutting calories from our diet, the number of calories our body expends begins to fall. "It literally starts happening on the first day," said Hall. "And it continues to mount as you lose weight."
> The reason Wishnofsky, and so many others since, have botched this biological fact is that it's fairly counterintuitive
Basically our bodies are not simple in any way, in particular when it comes to how it handles energy, which is core to our survival. There is a good amount of survivor bias in all the "that's how I lost weight" tales floating around.
All of the people I know who did reasonable carb counting, stuck to a 8 to 16 hours feeding/fasting period and picked up physical activity (n ~= 5) lost weight in the 5-10kg area.
Anyway, the point I was trying to make was that there are other simple life rules that feel like an epiphany while sounding trivial, e.g. "How I got rid of my debt by spending less than I earn."
This is also discussed in the Hacker's Diet (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Hacker's_Diet / https://www.fourmilab.ch/hackdiet/, free ebook and accompanying software). There seems to be a plateau around your "normal" lifestyle on which the body adjusts to small differences in calories in and out. You have to push the difference beyond a certain threshold to actually make a difference:
"If you eat a little too much, the body cranks up the burn rate a little: you feel warmer and more inclined to run up a flight of stairs rather than walk. If you eat a tad less than ideal, you may feel chilly and inclined to curl up with a book under the blankets and get a little extra sleep. [...] To achieve weight loss, you have to reduce what goes in below your capacity to adjust by banking the metabolic fires, forcing your body to tap its reserves[.]"
Only part I agree with that article, 3500 calories per pound wasn’t accurate for me. 3800 was about right, for me. But it’s not like 3500 is far off. I used it as a base rate until a month of data told me otherwise.
Here’s the reason why people think the simple rule of physics doesn’t work on their body, they are lying to themselves.
Some people think they burn 6000 calories like Michael Phelps because they bobbed in a pool for half an hour. Walked 20 min outside? I “hiked uphill” for 30 min then, I burned 300 calories. A serving of potato chips is 150 calories for 12 chips? Half a family bag is only 300 calories then! My body won’t notice a few cookies.
This is the bullshit people tell themselves regularly. I’ve heard it from MYSELF and from other obese folks who bitch about their problems.
Accurately count every single calorie you take in with a spreadsheet and you’ll see just how much of a fatass you are. That’s what I did for my once fat booty. Even count that cookie and candy bar. No excuses. Count every exercise accurately as well.
Human bodies are amazingly efficient. Scary efficient when you start to think that a slice of bread can walk your sack of meat about a mile. But physics and math will ALWAYS prevail. Energy is never created, only transfered. Fat is stored energy. Real basic high school stuff here people. That bow flex can’t bend the laws of physics.
And quit acting like survivorship bias is an excuse for laziness. So tired of everyone saying survivorship bias so they can complain about their problems these days. Sure, not everyone will succeed through hard work. But I also admit, I won’t put in the same effort as The Rock. That man earns his glorious cheat days. Earned, not whined. Hell, do you see any relatively decent athlete eating ice cream all day “oh I don’t work at anything, I just take this secret pill that all failures don’t take”.
Seriously, enough already. Do the work and quit with the excuses. Once I quit giving myself reasons why “oh I’m fat because...”, I started losing weight. I stopped eating fast food. Dropped simple carbs. Haven’t had soda since I started. What’s fun, I literally have to eat more steak to make calories and protein everyday. Fantastic perk to all of this. Props to OP for 2.7 average per week. Mine is 1.5 a week. But I’ve also been weight lifting so I’m assuming the muscle mass is slightly offsetting that.
Moral of the story, your comment is hurting people that are on the edge of making a positive change in their life. Stop hurting people for your own crocodile tears.
The article I picked was about the body compensating calory loss, but there is also other mechanism like increasing stress that boost up appetite in some people.
For a lot of people decreasing the amount of calories will be a psychological hell and can’t be done without dramatic changes to compensate. Telling them “reduce your calory intake, it’s not magical” will just be cruel and unhelpful, when they need structural rethinking of basicaly their life.
Some other will lose mostly water non-fat stuff and think their diet is working and not understand the ups and downs in their weight, and it’s not simple to manage if you don’t follow your muscle ratio.
Other people need to realize they actually don’t suffer much by reducing food intake, but never tried to because of social stigma or all the “influencers” shouting that diet is hard.
I’m not kin of the “Just do it” mantra thrown around to large swaths of people. As you point out some people might be on the edge of something, I just think they’ll eventually find what they need to do, while the rest of the people hearing the same message also have a chance of getting deeper in their hole by believing simplistic cheerleading.
My message would be “if you care about your health, talk to your doctor to know the actual stakes and see by yourself what you’re comfortable with”
We've finally, as a general society, grown out of telling people with clinical depression to just cheer up.
Yet we tell obese people to "just eat less". I think most obese people realise that if they want to lose weight they need to eat less.
You know, for morbidly obese people there is the possibility of stomach stapling. This physically prohibits over eating and lowers how much hunger you feel. The intervention is covered by the public health insurance in my country. And it comes with psychological supervision.
The background is that to a lot of obese people, eating is a coping mechanism and it turns out they get depressed when they no longer can eat as much as they used to.
I've know people personally who had the surgery and are still obese.
Controlling your diet seems like the easy way, and I don't think it's really healthy because you will lack energy, and it's easy to slip.
You should already stop drinking sodas and eating unnecessary snacks, but I'll never believe that it's the only thing you can do.
Remember that exercise gets easier over time, so just hang in there and take the pain. Sweating is good, all your body will be restarting if you exercise. All existing biology reacts to simulation, and dies if it stops moving. Just imagine your cells getting reorganized, cheese particles bring breathed out, and toxins getting filtered out.
Exercise will counter the problems created by bad diets but not only vascular. It will rebalance a lot of things. You will also sleep better.
There is truth in people living longer because they keep asking their body for more even when they age. All life forms thrived around biological movement. Sedentary lifestyle is the antithesis of living.
a. remove sugar from all diet including coffee etc.
b. double protein intake and halve carbs. One way to do is make your dinners protein only. Find Greek yogurt with low sugar content (or its easy to make at home too). This is especially important if you are above 35.
c. Read about the difference between fat and carbs. Till the time you reach target weight, eat carbs as little as possible.
d. If exercising try things like HIIT or weights that make you 'exert' yourself. Even if its just 5 minutes per day.
Regarding motivation to avoid over eating, make sure your diets includes periodic snacks. There are lot of benefits of eating frequent but light meals (trail mixes with nuts, boiled eggs, green tea, fruits are good examples). Trail mixes with little bit of sugar are ok as they help stop the sugar craving if you have one.
Changing what you eat is very hard for many people and can be the main thing stopping them from even trying.
On average, it takes about 3,500 calories to burn 1 pound of fat.
Suppose you eat 1,000 fewer calories than your Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR).
After a week your body will burn 7,000 calories or 2 lbs of fat.
I'm almost surprised that the weight curve dropped off linearly -- I always thought weight fell off quickly at the beginning, before plateauing towards the end. Great personal "myth" to have dispelled.Can I also compliment the site design? It's very clean, and presented the information well.
I think that this is due to people not modifying behavior as they lose weight. A person weighing 250 lbs has a higher BMR than when they weigh 200 lbs. So if you lose weight and don't adjust your daily calorie goal, you're no longer eating as far under your BMR as you used to.
Commonly there's a sharp initial weight loss due to "water weight" loss: changing to a diet with lower sugars (simple sugar and carbs) and salt leads to retaining less water, which in turn yields a sharp initial weight loss. That doesn't keep going.
However as the essay notes you have to either keep cutting calories and/or start exercising[0]: as weight drops so will BMR, carrying less weight means making less effort (for the same result) and fatty tissues are still living tissue so they do burn some energy. And since "weight change" is a factor of calorie intake / metabolic rate, if BMR drops you have to drop calorie intake for it to remain below BMR (and sustain a ratio < 1).
In the Data chart you can see that TFA's calorie intake drops by ~500 after the initial cut. They do note this issue in the conclusion, and that they attempted the exercise route but didn't care for it so stopped after 3 months.
[0] sustained exercise builds up muscle mass, and muscle increases BMR counteracting the BMR drop from the diet
Here's what worked for me:
* Calorie counting to work out baselines
* Accept the feeling of being hungry and learn to relish it ("I'm losing weight if I'm hungry")
* Do light weightlifting at home
* Exercise naked in front of a mirror for positive and negative reinforcementTwo years ago, I had a minor motorcycle crash, and at the hospital the doctor was scared about my heart rate. It was fast and it was loud, around 100 bpm at rest. I always had a heart with a fast beat so I didn't really care about it. Then, my son was born. At that moment I decided that I needed to take care of myself and started going to the gym. Alas, being a new parent takes a lot of time and energy, and I had to cancel my membership last year.
So I've been experimenting with intermittent fasting since then, and it's been the best thing I've done in a long time.
I started doing the usual "16/8", that is fast for 16 hours and eat during the following 8 hours window. Basically it meant skipping breakfast and having lunch at around 1pm, which is extremely easy to do.
The past two months, I cranked the notch a bit and I've been doing OMAD (One Meal A Day). I eat from 7pm to 9pm and the rest of the time I only drink water or black coffee. It just changed my life.
In the past two months I've lost 9kg, so now I'm at 73kg, and I've never felt so good in my life.
My mind feels sharper throughout the day, and I've developed a completely different relationship with food. I now consider it to be fuel, and I've started thinking about the quality of fuel I'm putting in my body. So now I cook and I try to chose good meat and vegetables, and I'm trying to cut on sugar and pasta. I still eat lunch sometimes (when I'm visiting my parents or I'm having lunch with a client) but I don't really care as I know that my weight is going to regulate itself in the few following days.
And my heart rate is now normal. At rest, it's beating at around 65 bpm.
If anyone's interested, I highly recommend watching Jason Fung on Youtube. His talks about fasting have been an eye opener for me. His approach on obesity through hormonal regulation is amazing.
For a few seconds I was confused as to how much running 30 meters would help :D But I guess he means 30 minutes.
Not that it isn't that simple, because it is. But, because for most people who are 100lbs overweight, they have a very unhealthy relationship with food. They stress eat, binge eat, binge drink, purge...
I guess it's kind of like the people who can just all of a sudden quit smoking, cold-turkey one day. Maybe they weren't addicted to nicotine in the first place?
I've tried explaining this to people who claim, "But X barely eats and doesn't lose any weight.". While there may be some variation in body efficiency and metabolism, if a person isn't losing weight over an extended period of time then they're eating more than they're burning and they're probably doing it when you can't see them.
When I was working on losing weight, I very loosely did the calorie counting thing and realized that the milk and cookies I would occasionally make after dinner was like 700 calories. Before I would just think about my meals with almost no thought about the extras.
What made me start the first time was a really scary moment of getting up and nearly blacking out (not getting up to fast and getting dizzy; I'm talking things just went properly black in a way I've not experienced before or since) and having distorted vision for 20 seconds or so after I sat back down.
Couple that with persistent knee pain that made my doctor look at me for about 10 seconds before giving me an exercise sheet for old people (when you're in your 30's and get handed a sheet of exercises where the pictures are of people 60+ it's not a good sign).
Get the right motivation and it gets a lot easier to stick with it.
Different life events made me start to slip a couple of years back, and at the moment I find it hard to be motivated in part because I still feel healthier than I did last time, and I'm far stronger than I was, and feeling like I'm in a better position makes it so easy to justify that one extra helping of food.
I'm not saying that to diminish the effort it takes to stick with it, but just to point out that even for the same person, the right catalyst (or lack of one) can mean the difference between sticking through it all the way through and not even getting started.
Also keep in mind survivor bias - not many of us will write about how we hoped to drop a hundred lbs but failed 5 lbs in. 10 times in a row.
One of the points of tracking calories/ gamifying the process of loosing weight is specifically to break those associations and reward mechanisms. If you're counting the calories you consume and constantly have a reminder of what your sacrifice of not eating will get you (eg measurable progress toward weight loss), then it is easier to alter your relationship with food.
Addictions are interesting things to break - I suspect they're also very different based on the person. I smoked for close to 10 years before going cold-turkey from 3 packs a day yet the nicotine cravings I had doesn't come close to how badly I crave sweet stuff most of the time.
Of course its always hard, half the time I eat at the salad bar at work, and I may not be able to estimate the amounts right. I always worry about underestimating how much I ate. I have even considered eating pre-packaged meals, but those always leave me hungry, and seem like a less healthy sodium filled alternative.
Not sure what my point is, but I guess I am wondering if anyone has managed to keep themselves motivated after years of failing to stay motivated? And if so, how?
I found an athletic hobby I really enjoy, so that works for me, but everyone has to find their own reason or come to the rational conclusion that it just isn't worth it.
The guy refused to eat at dinner because he gets his energy from the sun using photosynthesis.
As laughable as it sounds, it's not out-of-line compared to all the dietary marketing myths and superstitions that somehow persist.
I did join a gym, and this weekend decided to get a personal trainer for a couple months to be sure that I build some muscle mass too: my core is definitely weak, and gaining some muscle will not hurt to strengthen my body: had a few injuries (ankle/knee) where having muscles will probably avoid it.
So far on track, with almost 20 pounds lost (19.4 as of yesterday), and going to the gym 4 to 5 times a week 45 minutes to 1 hour at a time...
We're all different.
I've decided to lose weight a couple of times, on the order of 20-40 pounds each time. What has worked for me has been a combination of generally eating/drinking less, concentrating almost all of that into a small time window, and a fair bit of running. But the reason it works for me is very specific to what it takes to kick my body into fat-burning mode, how fast and how long my body sustains that, how this affects my energy levels, my physical ability to perform various kinds of exercise or tolerate various kinds of discomfort (e.g. I don't mind running on an empty stomach but I hate sleeping that way), and so on.Something vaguely similar to what I do might work for a lot of people, but the devil's in the details. My specific formula won't work for you. Experiment and find your own. The best thing about the recent IF/TRF/OMAD/whatever fad is not that it provides a specific blueprint but that it encourages people to experiment with different variations to find their own balance points.
This stuff is hard because we people are not very rational. So, here's a few simple practical things.
- Get a scale, put it in your bathroom, and use it as often as you can. Step 0 is simply knowing how you are doing. I know down to a few hundred grams what I weigh most of the time and I've learned the impact of my behavior on the scale. A big dinner, excessive drinking, etc. has a measurable impact that peters out over several days before I'm back to "normal". Simply knowing, has a moderating effect on what I do.
- Make changes in your behavior that you can turn into habits. Starving yourself definitely works short term but you'll bounce right back as soon as you resume your old habits. Kind of pointless. Regular fasting is great though because it becomes a habit and you don't have to take decisions.
- Try not to set your self up for being tempted to eat too much. In my case, going shopping after work when I'm tired and hungry leads to predictably bad decision making. Make sure you eat before you shop.
- Be honest about alcohol. I actually quit drinking completely for a while. Turns out that going for after work beers multiple times per week has a insanely huge caloric impact. I identified it as the single biggest thing that was impacting my weight and duly eliminated it for two years. These days I drink but much less than I used to. In my case I found it easier to not drink than to drink a little. One of the side-effects of alcohol is bad decision making. 1 Beer always leads to more beers. If this is hard for you, that's a good sign of being addicted. All the more reason to try to change things.
"The only thing you really need to know is that you should be eating fewer calories than your body burns everyday. If you do this, you will lose weight – it’s science. Nothing else matters for weight loss"
This may be one of the most harmful statements about diet. It's mostly true, but in a fairly banal sense. A baby will have a caloric surpluss as it grow. So will a potato. Without the calories, growth will stunt. This is the trivial fact.
The growth trajectory of a potato or baby is not trivially determined by caloric surplusses. One big factor is genetics, which tell babies and potatoes to grow. There are environmental factors, many of which are calorie related.
"This is a scientific fact" is in the context it's used, an empty tautology. Caloric surplusses can be used in exactly the same way to "explain" why an elephant is bigger than a mouse, why there are 6 billion people on the planet, how a bodybuilder got his biceps or why you got fat. This makes it a nonexplanation.
A less abstract hint that we're dealing with a nonexplanation is apples. Add one apple a day to your diet, and calorie counting will tell you that amounts to 5kg fat per year.
We know from experience that people do not gain/lose 10 lbs per year by adding an apple a day to their diet. Your apetite or metabolism (these are related) will compensate for the apple.
That doesn't mean that intentional caloric restriction isn't a good method. It works well for some. Other things work well for others. We don't have perfect knowledge about what works "in the wild" or even in the lab.
[1] https://www.newscientist.com/article/2093802-stomach-tap-to-...
Yes people will jump in and say "but but but but macros" and "but but but ketosis" but ultimately it's calories in < calories out.
Much like programming, everything eventually gets translated to machine code. Putting Assembly on that, and C on that, and then using Python just makes programming easier. But it doesn't change the fact that ultimately, it's all machine code. The Atkins diet is just syntactic sugar on top of the machine code of your body.
That's not to say it's a useless abstraction... there are plenty of programmers who wouldn't be doing the job, and plenty of jobs that wouldn't get done, if everyone had to program in machine code. Making it more accessible is a good thing, as long as you understand that Python ultimately becomes machine code, and your diet plan ultimately becomes calories in < calories out.
"You can make this program in any Turing complete language" is true. That truth is interesting to a computer science class. It's completeky useless and meaningless to a person writing a program. Say you want a program that does something with a relational database. The right advice is "you can do this with SQL."
The fact that human bodies follow the laws of physics ads no information. It is a logical red herring.
You can be on a keto diet and gain weight. You can be on a low carb diet and gain weight. And if you don't understand the basic principles of why that is, you'll think that losing weight is impossible. If you believe that keto is the only way to lose weight and you gained weight while following it, you're going to quit.
You need to understand why various diet plans work. Ultimately, they all work because they help you eat fewer calories than you're burning. If you follow the diet exactly but still consume more calories than you're burning, you will gain weight. If you don't understand that fact, you've already lost.
I can't think of a single more important fact to understand than that.
Yes, but is it fat or protein? If an adult human male weights 203 lbs at 25% body fat undergoes a transformation and goes to 250 lbs at 10% body fat, I think you'd be hard pressed to call him overweight. I think the NFL would like to have a talk with him.
But you should realize gaining muscle is actually difficult, and you should realize that it's basically impossible to lose weight and add substantial muscle at the same time since one requires a calorie deficit and the other requires a calorie surplus. Possible, but extremely extremely difficult and time consuming.
There's a reason professional athletes go through bulking/cutting cycles. No one is accidentally putting on 50lbs of muscle just by switching to keto.
It's true in some uninteresting abstract sense. Growing up involves caloric surpluses. Death involves an end to caloric intake. Did that corpse rot because it stopped ingesting calories?
The difficulty of weight loss isn't the math. It's how to hack your mind and body to minimize the willpower needed to maintain a caloric deficit that millions of years of evolution have optimized your system to avoid.
No need for hacks. 1) Don't eat things in a box or bag, real food only, 2) Caloric deficit.
It's actually very easy, people are just lazy or addicted to poor habits.
No, it's not as simple as avoiding packaged food. And even if it were, avoiding consuming all that crap may be simple but it's not easy. It takes a lot of willpower. If that's easy for you, you're in a tiny and fortunate minority.
The human body is a complex system with all sorts of feedback loops on inputs and outputs that can make it extremely difficult to change its equilibrium.
Calling people lazy when in fact they're losing a fight against every instinct of their biology (plus all sorts of societal ills like long work hours and food deserts and advertising) is unproductive.
Yes, the human body is very complex and metabolisms and people are all different, but you can't really do too much about that. So just eat healthy, eat less, burn more calories. What else can you do?
The advice (aside from the scams and a little bit of idiocy) is on how to achieve that deficit in a way that minimizes the willpower required - because humans suck at willpower and one's biology is constantly trying to undermine that willpower in order to achieve the "store more reserves" imperative.
Yes, if "as much as you want" means you maintain a caloric deficit.
Eating two oranges vs. drinking a glass of those two oranges' juice will yield very different results on the body, both in terms of how hungry you are, and how the nutrients are broken down.
Edit: I recommend giving "Sugar: The Bitter Truth" a watch. It's an excellent talk and should be available freely on youtube.
Edit 2: Furthermore, we don't burn calories at equal pace every day, even given the same amount of effort/exercise. Metabolism change means even passively you burn calories at different intensities on different days. These mechanisms result in significant differences between people.
The human body has an amazing set of machinery that's dedicated to making you eat when your metabolism needs certain kinds of materials and would rather not break down tissue to get them.
People won’t simply omit that fact. They’ll often actively argue that it’s untrue, that “you shouldn’t be hungry” when losing weight. This is only true if you simply don’t ever experience hunger normally (in which case you probably don’t need to lose weight).
Losing weight is hard. It doesn’t become easy because we pretend it is.
I'm not sure how this relates to the overall statistics of long-term success, and I suspect all but one of the people I mention would still choose to do it again.
So I guess by extreme I mean something like: a) a significant amount of weight loss, the need for which is (b) driven by existing and worsening medical problems due to the weight and, importantly (c) for someone who has been seriously trying to lose the weight for some time now and repeatedly failed.
If you aren't in that sort of scenario I am unconvinced the surgical risk and risk of ongoing issues will outweigh the benefits...
1. Find the nutritional information on the back of the bread bag. Enter that into the app.
2. Put slice of bread on the scale. Record weight, put into app.
3. Zero out scale with slice of bread still on it.
4. Put slice of ham on slice of bread, record weight. Enter into app... that brand of ham is not on the app.
5. Enter ham nutritional information into app. Enter ham slice weight into app.
6. Put a big amount of green salad on the sandwich. We're not counting the calories in that, but we need it to zero out the scale.
7. Put a second slice of ham on the sandwich, measure its weight, enter into app.
8. Put a second slice of bread, measure its weight, enter into app.
9. You have now spent 20 minutes making a sandwich and wrestling with an infuriating mobile interface for entering information.
And this is the most basic of foods. If I decide to actually cook something, things get super hairy, because I have to first measure the raw ingredients, then measure the weight of the cooked food, then divide the amount of calories in the ingredients by the weight of the cooked food to obtain calories/gram, then use that to calculate portion size. The ingredients I use are constrained in variety and quantity by what's available in my local stores, so I can't even make the exact same thing every time, so I have to repeat this process every day.
It also meant I couldn't eat out at most restaurants, because there was no nutritional information available, which is the point when I gave up trying to count calories, because having to make everything from scratch myself, while also measuring and entering ingredients in the app means spending 2-3 hours per day on just making food, which is time I don't really have.
One important point to note is that past a certain level, usually around a 500kcal per day deficit, it becomes extremely hard to maintain. Performance physically + mentally will start dropping off quickly. If you do want / need a larger deficit, do more low-intensity exercise rather than reducing caloric intake, and make sure you have a reasonably varied diet (or at least take a multivitamin).
(I used to do competitive sport with weight classes, and messing up your weight plan was never fun ...). Standard disclaimer: I am not a doctor or nutritionist etc.
The error is to think that 1 mile is a long distance. That takes like 7-20 minutes.
That time frame represents a big range of abilities.
The person doing it in 7 minutes is probably in good shape. The person doing it in 20 minutes is probably walking it, and not fast.
When you are losing weight for more than a month, I guarantee you, if you are a reasonable person, you wouldn't be losing a donut with those 500 Kcal. You'd instead be giving up 500grams (almost 2 pounds) of tomatoes + 80 grams of cheese + slice of wholegrain bread. That's a meal right there.
BTW, training during weight loss (by caloric restriction, at least) is mostly done to keep your existing muscle mass + keep metabolic rate up. You wouldn't train to create a bigger deficiency. So every calorie you burn through training (even low-intensity) you should intake back as food.
I will be walking for about an 1.5h tonight to "gather" some calories for dinner. I spend my rations for a bit more caloric lunch and now I will have to pay for it. :)
I've also done a substantial weight loss, while staying healthy (you can check my 1st-level comment in this same discussion).
I guess the "random internet know-it-all" is supposed to be me. I am in no way anonymous, btw (you can check my profile for links, in case you want to learn more about me), so maybe you can search for something that I have EVER posted that you are 100% sure was a lie and then try to label me? I find your comment rude and your username appropriate, Ms./Mr. AnIdiotOnTheNet.
Besides which, here's what you've missed in your calculations: Precisely because there are lower calorie foods that you can eat, choosing not to eat 500 extra calories is much easier than 500 calories of walking. You can eat three of the meals you described every day (assuming your math is correct, I didn't check) and only consume 1500kcal, right? Since that's bound to be a deficit for pretty much anybody who actually needs this advice, you don't even need to walk at all. You probably should, just don't kid yourself into thinking that it makes up for poor dietary choices.
44 lbs is about 1/4 of what you needed to do, yes, but that doesn't mean that my accomplishment is not significant. I wouldn't call a 6-month-long starvation insignificant effort. And 1/4 from a billion dollars is still a lot of money, isn't it? In my case it was 19% of my body weight that I trimmed, I am 6ft 1 and I am about 6 lbs above that previous mark, 6 months after I finished my weight-loss sprint (and this year I will continue to go down).
As I said - I wouldn't exercise to create a deficit. I would do it after I have achieved a big-enough deficit, and would replenish any calories expended through it with food.
So I don't try to argue you should "work" instead of "starve" - I am arguing that you should "starve" to get that deficit in and then "work to preserve muscle; continue burning on a good rate; eat more". Does that make sense?
I'm 5'11". I achieved my lowest weight about 2 years ago and have managed to keep off all but 10lbs of it, much of which I'm confident is muscle. It took me 4-5 years to hit the low mark.
I didn't mean to imply that 44lbs was insubstantial, rather that I've had to operate at a different scale and so have a different perspective on what works and what doesn't.
Good job.
I'd suggest talking to a PT and /or your doctor before jumping into doing high-intensity work if you haven't before.
Do that 3 times a week and you'll burn a pound every second week or 25 pounds a year.
I also find that I tend to eat less if I exercise. No idea why, but it just seems to work that way for me.
And let's face it, losing weight only comes down to calories in vs calories out when you look at it biologically. In reality it's 100% a psychological problem.
Anyone know of an app that only tracks calories? I personally don't care about my "macros" and salt etc . There's almost no chance of going over recommended values at 1600 calories a day anyways unless you only eat gas station food
PS: I reported the bugs but I always was ignored, even being a paid user.
The app keeps on the phone a very small fraction of the total food database, that is only the food which you have already entered. Trying to use it in the Paris metro, where for the most part I don't get any signal, was very frustrating and I ended up uninstalling it and deleting my account.
So instead of trying to be small, I've started to embrace the fact that I am a larger person whose body wants to be on the larger side. I started lifting really heavy weights, focusing more on adding muscle and gaining strength and a lot less on weight. I'm doing the Starting Strength program, which is a basic power lifting program.
I started in early May at around 240 at 6'1. I'm now about 236, so a little bit of gradual weight loss, but I've dropped a lot of fat and added on muscle.
I am trying to make sure I eat healthy and clean, but don't do calories counting or anything like that.
The other benefit of power lifting is that it requires you to take care of yourself in other parts of your life. You must get good sleep. The more, the better. Otherwise, your body can't require from all of the stress. You also need to eat good foods to help your body recover from muscle tears and add on new muscle.
I can understand the allure of mostly focusing on calorie counting as technically just eating less doesn't require additional time, but I have found the 3x 1-1.5 hour lifting sessions well worth it. I feel and look a lot better. Also, the focus and commitment required to do power lifting well spills over to the rest of your life. I'll provide an update after six months.
I recently lost a little less than 50 pounds doing Whole30 (for 30 days, followed by a lighter version with occasional exceptions). I liked it because I didn't really need to count calories. Yes, it technically falls into the "fancy diet" category since you're eliminating food groups. It had a few advantages that I think straight calorie counting didn't, though.
Its restriction from any added sugar or sweetener both naturally reduces calorie intake massively and tends to stabilize energy levels throughout the day, while eliminating cravings over time. I've found that I don't really want to eat many of the things I used to.
The foods that Whole30 eliminates tend to be emptier calories than others. There is some science behind the choices but admittedly it's not peer reviewed or anything. That said, again, I don't really miss toast, bread, or cereal that much. Dairy was hard at first but easy now (and again, swapping for water eliminates a bunch of calories). I think not drinking Diet Coke helped my health, but I have a harder time identifying why.
Also, I don't really have to try on this plan. My weight just tends to drop off without thinking about it.
I did Weight Watchers before, which kinda worked but left me both hungry fairly constantly and frustrated by the constant food lookups and logging.
Some consider Whole30 woo or unhealthy, which is fine, but it works pretty well for me.
I'm glad this strategy worked for you, but I hope people don't take this as advice that is easily generalized.
For a lot of people here, I suspect, it's like getting a lecture on if statements when discussing multi-threaded control flow.
I did this for about 6 months to a year, and yes, it absolutely works. But it is soooo tedious as to be almost impossible to keep up with.
I found that using my fitness tracking watch to measure how many calories I burn while taking daily walks and going to the gym 2x a week was far easier and more rewarding than the calorie counting.
I find the calorie counting apps often have a limited database of foods, and if you're eating healthy, and not buying packaged foods as much, you have to enter tons more data, and it's much less accurate because you don't know how much of a given food you're eating unless you measure everything before cooking it (which is also tedious). It works, but not without a lot of effort, which is what turns most people off from losing weight.
I am seeing a lot of disregard for exercise and in particular heavy weightlifting which has a ton of benefits to daily life.
The original post itself shows a guy who goes for 1000 kcal deficit which is widely known as being twice as much as the healthy maximum.
Studies have shown that very few people can successfully lose weight through exercise alone, and that dieting is much more effective.
Which is easier, cutting out soda and sweets or running every day? Keep in mind that running one mile burns about 100 calories. Dessert can easily be upwards of 500 calories. https://www.healthline.com/health/fitness-exercise/running-b...
Also, exercise stimulates hunger and you will naturally eat more to compensate for the lost calories.
True but completely disingenuous. If you normally eat 3,000 calories/day, and cut it to 2,000 calories/day, you won't necessarily lose weight -- many people's metabolisms will simply slow down equivalently.
Happy for this guy that it worked, but not all of us are so lucky. Turns out there are a lot of different factors that affect our metabolism, which can be just as important (if not more).
Edit: see Gary Taubes' work on this, extremely detailed stuff on what regulates metabolism and fat storage, there's nothing simple about it -- e.g. https://www.amazon.com/Good-Calories-Bad-Controversial-Scien...
Your BMR is all the calories your body burns simply by existing. Throw a caloric deficit on top of that and you will lose weight.
Some people have ridiculously low BMR's that don't match their appetites. Some people with hormonal or thyroid issues might have a BMR of 1,000 calories. It sucks but it's true. Those people will be stuck overweight for life because it's pretty damn hard to eat under 1,000 calories for the rest of your life.
Other people have ridiculously high BMR's and really struggle to gain weight.
The key is finding your BMR through trial and error, and eating below that calorie rate or exercising yourself into a deficit.
Kinda, sorta, not really. It's about eating under maintenance. What you "normally eat" is irrelevant; what matters is that you are eating less than you burn and that you're eating quality food. I have been in and around this stuff for decades and I have yet to see a person who counts calories (correctly) and eats the right stuff fail to lose weight. Typically your sort of attitude comes from those who only partially follow a diet and then complain that "nothing works" and "it must be genetic".
This is nonsense and you're doing more harm than good if you repeat this to people honestly trying to get healthy.
Biggest Loser contestants were very good at short-term weight loss. But many completely destroyed their metabolisms, causing them to burn hundreds of calories less than expected. It's very hard for many of them not to gain a lot of weight back because their bodies are burning so few calories.
People need to be really careful not to crush their metabolisms when dieting, otherwise all you will do is yo-yo diet, making yourself fatter in the end.
Doing a more moderate caloric deficit with heavy weight training is probably your best path forward. It'll take some time, but you won't crush your metabolism.
Also, one big issue yo-yo dieters encounter is that, once they reach their goal, they go back to their old habits. You can eat more once you hit your goal, but you can _never_ go back to your old, unhealthy diet if you want to maintain what you accomplished.
You will lose weight, it's just not in the areas you want. I've followed a similar path and have slowly but surely lost weight all over (~100lbs at this point): abdomen, chest, arms, legs, face, and neck.
It really is as simple as a calorie deficit. Good nutrition mixed in with that and exercise can help to bolster results but you don't need them. The first 6 months all I did was watch calories—no exercise—and lost a good 50-60 lbs.
The thing missing for most folks isn't genetics, it's patience. If you start off big, it takes a long time to "get skinny." You lose a ton of weight early on and then as your body adapts, fat loss slows but doesn't stop. That's not disingenuous.
You're absolutely correct, because what you said has nothing to do with what the article said.
What the article said: If you normally put 10 gallons in your car every day, but you only burn 5, you need to put in less than 5 every day to make sure you will eventually run out (ie lose weight)
What you said: if you normally put 10 gallons in your car every day, but you only burn 5, cutting down to only 7 gallons a day doesn't mean you'll run out eventually (i.e. lose weight).
In conclusion: It doesn't matter how much you've been eating, it only matters that from now on you eat less than you're burning!
> What the article said: If you normally put 10 gallons in your car every day, but you only burn 5, you need to put in less than 5 every day to make sure you will eventually run out (ie lose weight)
I'm saying that if you respond by putting 4 in your body, your body may respond by only burning 4 instead of burning its usual 5 -- and you don't lose weight. This is why weight loss can be so much more difficult for some people than others. (In practice, people trying to lose weight can feel a loss of mental energy, get cold easily and start wearing hoodies instead of t-shirts at the office, they no longer fidget, etc. -- there are lots of ways for your body to slow down in response to less fuel, and they don't always include weight loss.)
Absolutely. In fact your body will repsond and burn less (because you weigh less).
So what that means is this is an iterative process. Put 4 in your body and watch how much you're burning. If you're now burning less than 4, put 3 in your body. Now watch how much you're burning. If you're now burning less than 3, put 2 in your body.
It's an ongoing process of re-evaluation and adjustment, and every body is different. But they are very much the same in the one way that science limits to universe.
If you put in less energy than you use, your body can't invent that extra energy it needs to function, and therefore your body must start to consume it's energy reserves. It's not possible for anything else to happen.
The vast majority of people will definitely lose weight if they cut a third of their intake, all else being equal.
You're arguing about a marginal effect, and arguing against the primary effect. The primary effect is that eating more than burned is what caused the weight gain, and eating less than burned will cause weight loss. That's true regardless of metabolic elasticity, but even so changes in metabolic rate account for only a small fraction of changes in intake.
Last I tried, it cost $30 at a local university and took about 30 minutes. Once you know your current body fat % it is much easier to figure exactly how many lbs you need to lose to reach your target %. When going by BMI much of that is guesswork.
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"How calorie-focused thinking about obesity and related diseases may mislead and harm public health. An alternative"
"Abstract: Prevailing thinking about obesity and related diseases holds that quantifying calories should be a principal concern and target for intervention. Part of this thinking is that consumed calories – regardless of their sources – are equivalent; i.e. ‘a calorie is a calorie’. The present commentary discusses various problems with the idea that ‘a calorie is a calorie’ and with a primarily quantitative focus on food calories. Instead, the authors argue for a greater qualitative focus on the sources of calories consumed (i.e. a greater focus on types of foods) and on the metabolic changes that result from consuming foods of different types. In particular, the authors consider how calorie-focused thinking is inherently biased against high-fat foods, many of which may be protective against obesity and related diseases, and supportive of starchy and sugary replacements, which are likely detrimental. Shifting the focus to qualitative food distinctions, a central argument of the paper is that obesity and related diseases are problems due largely to food-induced physiology (e.g. neurohormonal pathways) not addressable through arithmetic dieting (i.e. calorie counting). The paper considers potential harms of public health initiatives framed around calorie balance sheets – targeting ‘calories in’ and/or ‘calories out’ – that reinforce messages of overeating and inactivity as underlying causes, rather than intermediate effects, of obesity. Finally, the paper concludes that public health should work primarily to support the consumption of whole foods that help protect against obesity-promoting energy imbalance and metabolic dysfunction and not continue to promote calorie directed messages that may create and blame victims and possibly exacerbate epidemics of obesity and related diseases."
https://www.cambridge.org/core/services/aop-cambridge-core/c...
I've been at it for about 5 months now and I've dropped 30 kg as of a few days ago (from 118kg), which is 66lbs (from 260lbs).
The added benefit of exercise is that my energy levels are much more stable throughout the day, and my mood is generally better and more positive.
Also, this wasn't so much of a diet as a lifestyle change. I always wanted to get into body weight exercises and gymnastics, but got discouraged by injuries and lack of knowledge/guidance. So, I'm very lucky to have met my friend (in more ways than one) who helped set me on the path I wanted to be!
[1]: The deficit might not be so slight anymore, given I gained strength and increased my intnesity whilst keeping the calories the same. I've started eating a bit more to compensate for that now, but I'm still in a net deficit.
My advice to people who want to be successful into this, would be:
1. Be realistic with the calories you consume. Use an app to track everything down. Eat more raw vegetables and lean protein-source foods that are easy to account for and will fill you up (so you will not feel hungry all of the time). Measure everything to the gram. Buy a scale and try preparing most of your food yourself.
2. Don't have cheat-days. Get to your goal and then, you add a few hundred calories a day to equalize intake/expenditure (so you stop losing weight), so you will have a few hundred more calories a day to eat - now you can (hopefully) have what you want and would not be cheating.
3. Be realistic with the calories you spend. Get an armband to measure your movement throughout the day, measure yourself on the scale every week and if things don't add-up - correct for the error.
4. Don't go for more than 0.5kg loss per week. Having such a huge deficit to make 1kg of fat go away within a week can render you in a very unproductive state where you barely can get anything done during the day (that's ~1285 Kcal deficit a day, which is half of your normal calories per day if you are 30 yo male, not gaining or loosing weight and you weigh-in at 220 punds / 100kg, you would usually be expending about 2600 Kcal if you have at least some activity during the day like an hour of walking).
5. Don't listen to people's stories about weight loss and "what worked for them", if they are in their early 20's (I am 30 yo). Younger bodies (and minds) are more susceptible to magic.
If at the start of your journey you maintain some muscle through training - you will have to continue training during this period of weight loss, or that is the first thing you will lose. Even then, you have to know you will lose some muscle. I personally don't care about looks (I run and I train in Boxing) and losing some of that muscle doesn't bother me, since at the end I feel lighter, quicker and (compared to my new weight-class) stronger.
Good luck!
P.S.
- Even if you weren't training when you started and you are not trying to maintain gained muscle - doing some interval training during the weight loss will help keep your metabolic rate from falling. Your body will (partially) adjust to the weight loss by lowering your metabolism and this will solve part of the hunger, but you will feel sleepy, slow and tired and you will be burning less fat overall. Pushing yourself for just a few minutes a day with some HIIT or something similar, can offset this.
Especially if they're much younger, but not only then. We're all different - in our bodies' responses to different stimuli, in our schedules and other constraints, in our tolerance for different kinds of privation or discomfort. Even among people of similar ages and life circumstances, results will vary widely. The important thing is to experiment with different kinds of diet and exercise, different schedules of when to do which, and observe what's working vs. what's not.
I've lost 15kg (so far) following the current (they keep changing it) Weight Watchers plan, which is mostly a series of tricks designed to create a calorific deficit without me feeling hungry and miserable all the time. Works for me. Okay, so I have to pay, but it works and that's important (and I can afford it).
I don't think any one method is going to work for everyone, because so much of effective weight loss is a mental game and you need to find the game that works for you. Research, think, consider yourself and your needs and then go for it. Personally, I tried calorie counting and I just couldn't handle the nitpicking nature of it. WW turn everything into much broader units, which are rather crude but it all seems to work out in the end.
Although that said I'm currently stuck 3kg away from my goal weight because having crossed into the "healthy" BMI category and experienced a huge boost in my energy levels, physical fitness and capability my motivation has faded somewhat. I look better (people have commented, which is nice). I can dance more (I'm a morris dancer, yesterday I danced a solo jig after three other dances in blazing sunshine and I was fine, couldn't have done that last year) and I can do much, much better at aikido training (not only do I have more stamina throwing people around, I can also be thrown much better as I can fall better because I've got less excess mass to worry about when I hit the floor - I've been told it's much more fun to train with me than it was when I was at my heaviest).
So however you do it... it's worth it. But it's impossible to say there's just one method anybody needs, because you have to get over your own mental hurdles first.
Which is not just the system btw... I had to change jobs to give me the mental space to pull it off, as I was miserable and depressed and comfort eating constantly.
I tried that last year and lost... 1kg over the course of three months on a decent calorie deficit(or so I thought). Gained that much - and more - in two weeks or so during Christmas. Granted I didn't move at all, because I was working remotely and had no incentive to go out.
I guess when you're obese your diaphragm working to keep you oxygenated is enough "exercise", so that may be sound advice if you're on that end of the scale.
I know my last year's approach led me to lose a significant amount of muscle mass, so I recommend some light exercise - yoga works well because you only need 2m x 2m of real estate, a mat and thirty minutes of your time daily. At this rate you're well within the recommended amount of physical activity.
That would be your issue. If you're eating a good bit below your maintenance level you'll lose weight. Period. You were not. You likely overestimated maintenance else you simply ate more than you tracked.
I understand they were dancing around saying "I didn't lose anything", I was just trying to make the point that they likely didn't gain much either. Tiny fluctuations like that happen more around water weight than fat weight.
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I naturally started eating healthy foods because I could eat more of them. If you eat a chocolate bar, you will still be hungry. For the same amount of calories, you could eat a few bowls of vegetables and be full. That said, the best part about this overall approach is that you can still eat whatever you want – just count the calories."
That is essential to both taking the weight off and keeping it off. I followed only this rule, which meant avoiding refined carbs and fatty foods,and I didn't even count calories and I took off 50 pounds over about three years, and have kept it off.
I still don't count calories, I eat as much as I want, I just make sure it is mostly high in bulk with a fair amount of protein, and reasonably low in fat.
What clicked for me with this plan was that you can automatically adjust your caloric intake on the basis of how well you're tracking your goal weight loss rate. You don't even have to count calories well: if you're undercounting, the system corrects for that by telling you to lower your intake goal.
Realizing that it was mathematically impossible not to succeed if I just followed the simple steps was the spark I needed to get started.
The Hacker's Diet – How to lose weight and hair through stress and poor nutrition
first published 1994, also comes with software tools
Another secret is also to do that in a period of low stress. High stress will kill any diet.
Willpower is of course the problem for all strategies, and breaking habits. If you get used to your chocolate bar at 3pm every day, it is hard to suddenly forgo it.
I find the answer rather interesting as for 10 units of fat you burn, you breath out about 8.4 units of carbon dioxide and 1.6 units of water. Applying this to imperial pounds means that:
1 lb fat -> 0.84 lbs CO2 and 0.16 lb water.
¹https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/12/141216212047.h...
You almost certainly need to exercise, because your body will adapt to simply eating less. When it can't adapt, you're probably starving yourself, which is unhealthy and ineffective for long term weight loss.
1: https://www.nytimes.com/2016/05/02/health/biggest-loser-weig...
I find my MFP calories are not good data because somedays I say "screw it" and stop counting or don't try and track because I really don't know how much I'm eating (is it 6oz, 4oz or 8oz of chicken, not sure because its just a pile)
The Calories in / Calories out dichotomy is similar to the double accounting Assets = Liabilities + Capital in that it is so simple, but until you start to pay attention you can make that equation massively unbalanced to the point it starts to hurt you.
Simple online BMR calculators put my BMR at >1500 kcal/day. Add life on top of that, plus some exercise, and that value needs to be 2000+, sometimes much higher.
90% of people using this "diet" will gain all the weight back; if not more, for lots of reason.
There are direct simple reasons like, by eating much less than your BMR, you are going to loose a ton of muscle mass, even though you eat "enough" protein. The lost of this muscle mass will make your BMR even lower, make your testosterone level lower, and lots of other bad consequences for your hormones.
There are lots of studies about weight loss, comparing every diet, and almost all diets don't work in the long run.
The only thing that works in the long run is eating slightly less calories than needed, with healthy food, with good macros/micros, and building muscle mass, to keep the metabolism rate high.
The thing is, with this type of diet it could take years to achieve your target weight, and not a lot of people are able to accept that, even though it's the healthiest thing to do.
Given the track record of nutritional professionals that's practically an endorsement.
The most obvious choice here are things with lots of mass that are readily available and suitable for snacking on. For me that's cherry tomatoes and carrots dipped in hummous.
While low in calories, these foods (vegetables) tend to have a high density of nutrients, so I believe what happens is you end up getting more or the same amount of nutrients for fewer overall calories.
I frequently consume that before lunch and my dinners are often that large on their own. I'm 5'7" and 150lbs. I do workout regularly, but even without the exercise, I don't see how I could stay -200kcal/day on my BMR without making a mess of my metabolism and supplementing vitamins.
I'm sure store-bought is made with lots of oil. When I make it at home it's mostly chickpeas with a little tahini, usually about 1tbsp per carton of beans.
Tahini = ~90kcal / tbsp Chickpeas = ~150kcal / carton
= 240kcal / bowl of homemade hummous
If I'm eating it with carrots I'll get about eight servings from a bowl. So say 100g carrots is 40kcal, plus 240/8, equals 70kcal.
Right enough it about doubles the calories from the carrot, but it is a _lot_ tastier, and 70kcal isn't going to break your budget too hard if you're being careful generally.
If you are not trying to lose a ton of weight, it might be a bit drastic and you would certainly want to take in other considerations based on your goals.
I guess I'd rather exercise than starve myself. :)
The more you exercise the more you can get away with eating!
(Sure if you are 5'7 and weigh 150lbs, that would be unhealthy for a year, you don't need to lose 50lbs. But that would be just fine for someone that is overweight)
Exercising to the point of burning >1000 calories is not trivial. You're basically committing to run like 8 miles just for that amount. Then you'll still be hungry with the additional food.
Your BMR is far more important to weight loss than what most people can do with exercise.
As you lose weight, you cause irreparable damage to your metabolism and for the rest of your life it will burn fewer calories. The more you lose, the slower it gets. It's a bitch and a half.
But yes, diet is much more important than exercise.
> The only thing you really need to know is that you should be eating fewer calories than your body burns everyday. If you do this, you will lose weight – it’s science. Nothing else matters for weight loss. The magnitude of the caloric difference will regulate how quickly or slowly you lose the weight.
This is actually not so clear cut. It's currently being debated if this model is right or the hormonal model is right. https://peterattiamd.com/do-calories-matter/
What I suspect with the author was that his caloric deficit was also restricting carbs and once the carbs was restricted his body started to burn fat when there was no more insulin in his blood.
Counting carbs and restricting them leads to an easier lifestyle to follow where you don't worry about getting hungry and making sure you're burning more then you eat (Vs counting calories).
You can find here[0] a lot of progress pics from ppl, who lost a lot of weight with simple cico[1]. I do PSMF[2] sometimes for 1-2 Weeks when I feel to lose 1-4kg.
[0] https://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics/ [1] calories in, calories out [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Protein-sparing_modified_fast
I lost the first 45 pounds in 3 weeks by doing the following daily routine:
- 4 hours of swimming
- 1.5 hours of weights lifting
- 3 hours of swimming
- 2 hours of table tennis
1 BIG lunch, no other meal for the day, TONS of water.
Apps, books and all are completely overrated. Just be motivated and listen to your body, stop exercise when you reach your limit, rest, repeat..
The other 55+ pounds were lost over 2 years and a half without much exercise, just find the arrangement of fruits, lightweight cheese and vegetables + tuna that you love and eat it as often as possible.
Deal was: exercise A LOT but not for an extended period of time, eat less (once a day) but eat food that I like in quantities that I enjoy.
> following daily routine
Honestly curious how you have 10.5 hours to spend at the gym every day, then 8 hours at work, and still have a life? Lost 85 lbs recently myself and have extremely flexible remote developer hours and still don't think I could find 10 hours a week to spend at a gym.
Also you don't have to go full power mode for 4 hours, the important part is to be in the water and move as much as possible. I preferred on my end to do half-day at the beach and half-day at the swimming pool.
did you find exercise made you hungry? maybe that's why going for a run before bed might be beneficial as you can sleep rather than eat.
Of course, not everyone has the luxury to exercise for half an hour, have a shower, and then eat lunch in the middle of the day. Any company that doesn't give their employees adequate time to exercise is just harming itself. Healthy employees are productive employees.
Now you should integrate exercising into your life. At least 150 minutes of vigorous exercise per week. Do it.
And, of course I can question curiosity. We're in the internet age. If you have a basic question, ask google.
When somebody presents an opinion that seems to go against the general scientific consensus, no, I won't just google it, I'd rather ask what they base it on.
It's a fact that it's harder for women to lose weight than men in certain cases. Their point was that "caloric deficit" is different for each person, and sometimes dramatically so.
Every living person that is maintaining their weight can eat 500 kcals a day less than they do now and they'd lose weight.
a) Doesn't really eat 1000 kcals a day if she's active, and should, instead of building a diet by counting calories (doing which she's prone to miscalculation), simply eat less of whatever she usually eats. b) Doesn't need to lose half a kg of fat every week.
Most online calculators are veeery optimistic (off by >500kcal). If you take the general advice and only restrict to a 500kcal deficit, you won't see much happening :/
The body can adjust its usage of calories way down in the event of a perceived famine, making the amount of calories consumed no longer contain a deficit.
The RMR can change during a diet as both fat and muscle require maintenance, and you nearly always lose both during a period of deficit. This can make maintaining a significant deficit very difficult
Finally, there is evidence that people who have lost significant weight have a reduced metabolic weight (and hunger for more calories) even five years after they completed their dieting. This may explain why the failure rate of people >100 lbs overweight losing and maintaining is nearly 95%
The hormone mix basically tells your body to store some percentage of calories in as fat. When young and/or fit, this percentage is low. Calories above your burn rate are stored as glycogen in your muscles, giving you usable energy stores that will be used when you exercise.
When older or fat or both, calories above your burn rate go to fat cells waiting to fill back up. As the weight packs on, the percentage increases and more and more of the calories you consume are going to fat instead of being burned. Your caloric burn alotment goes down. You lose muscle density. Testosterone goes down, and the percentage of calories dedicated to fat stores climbs.
So it is still true, calories in < calories out to lose weight. But perhaps it would be better to say “calories in < (calories out + calories stored)”
Where calories stored will vary and for fat people it’s much higher than fit.
A fat man can eat the same food and calories as a fit person who does not exercise, and gain weight and feel tired while the fit person feels an energy boost.
There's also the fact that muscles burn fat whereas fat begets fat storage.
I believe metabolism does slow year over year once you get to a certain age, but it's difficult to find data on that.
Exercise is important, and people should exercise because they get benefits even if they don't lose weight, but you should stop saying it's useful to reduce weight.
We think that people heavily over-estimate the amount of calories burnt by exercise; they under-estimate the amount of calories they eat; and exercising gives people "permission" to eat more calories than they normally would.
http://www.cochrane.org/CD003817/ENDOC_exercise-for-overweig...
You are correct that people frequently overestimate how many calories they burn working out, and that they then eat more as a result - both because they think they've earned it, but also because exercise stimulates your appetite. But when you understand these instincts and stick to the diet, exercise will help you lose weight more quickly.
Of course each of us is unique, and also changes over time, so efficiency of both inputs and outputs varies.
I believe you meant that its mentally hard to restrict one so much in later age to suffer from hunger enough to lose weight, but technically its doable and happening in millions of instances around the world all the time (ie due to long term illnesses).
Exercise helps tremendously of course, and everybody should do enough of any healthy type every day to get sweaty (and more). But it isn't necessary to lose weight, not at all, at any age.
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Don't skip logging even if you go over your goal and stay consistent. Very nice points.
This is generally contested by recent diet and nutrition research, as I understand it.
If you have a jar with €100 in it, and you put €9 more in every month but also take out €10 then you will lose €1, no matter what an economist says.
There is still research being done in how the body reacts to different caloric deficits, but the basics hold up.
But my point is calories out will vary depending on calories in. You can eat 2000 calories of carbs 1 day and 2000 calories of protein the next... turns out your calories out will be higher when you eat protein because your metabolism increases. This isn't physics. This is nutrition. And its still not fully understood IMHO.
Frustrated because, for one thing, this approach is extremely discouraging to people who want to, or are in the process of, losing weight. "Jesus you're so dumb, how can you not understand this one simple thing that you merely have to eat less?"
1. What works/worked for you/your friends/whoever you read about on the internet may not work for everyone. That's because when talking to each other, neither party has the full picture. Neither party knows exactly the level of activity and food habits of the other.
"I simply cut X calories from my diet and it worked!" -- yes, but you also forgot to mention you bike to work and back home every day.
2. Calories in != Calories out. CICO is an approximation, a pretty good one in terms of nutrition, but different foods break down very differently in the body. I recommend watching "Sugar: The Bitter Truth". TLDW: It's a long presentation that talks about how glucose and fructose are broken down by the body.
Furthermore, CICO is super misleading on two levels:
- It completely ignores hunger. Telling someone "Go down to 1400 calories / day" can be a horrible idea if they don't radically change their diet. It's not just about cutting, it's about replacing. There's high-calorie-budget things you can't keep eating/drinking, and low-calorie-budget things that make you feel fuller that have to be introduced.
- Metabolism matters. As I was saying further down in the thread, depending on your metabolism (influenced both by genetics and overall activity level), two people may burn different amounts of energy, both when they're active and even passively by merely existing.
So, for all intents and purposes, yes, calories in == calories out. But that's not the only thing that matters. Get your diet sorted out, get your exercise plan sorted out, find a strategy that works long term (not just a crash diet) and that is and feels comfortable. Anything that is uncomfortable/unpleasant is not something that can be maintained long term.
Also, like the post says, get a digital body scale to start recording your weight. I got a Nokia Health smart scale which gives me graphs of my weight automatically. Being able to see the trends is the most critical tool. Can you imagine getting good performance at load on your servers without instrumentation, merely by just running top once in a while?
PS, if you're downvoting, take the time to leave a comment. All the above is from hard-earned experience.
CICO is what it breaks down to. But it implies that you can start counting calories, mathing it out against exercise, and be done. The road to get to that equation actually working is a long one, one that involves eating better (not just less), and getting long term strategies in place. (This comment is excellent to that point: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=17392744)
It's crazy simple and there is a ton going on beneath the hood, but nobody needs to go that deep to get the job done. If you find some other libraries/tricks that help make your life easier, use them!
If you really want to start optimizing metabolic timings and portioning and macros and micros and all that, that's great too! But I don't see why getting started with a healthy diet has to be so complicated: eat healthy, eat less, burn calories. Don't over think it.
> But I don't see why getting started with a healthy diet has to be so complicated
This is a failure on your part. Dieting is an extremely hard and complicated thing for many, many people, as you can plainly see in this thread. That you don't see what's so complicated about your suggestion is a hint that you're missing a part of the picture.
Let's start with "Eat healthy": How do you do that? What do you define as healthy? How do you do it when you're strapped for cash? How do you even find healthy food, even if you know what to look for?
"Eat less": How do you determine what to cut? How much of it do you cut? Will cutting something cause you to crave something else?
"Burn calories": This is the hardest one. There's no easy way of checking how many calories you burn every day. "20 minutes of running" is very different from one person to the next, so even timing yourself isn't always enough. At the gym, machines sometimes have estimates for how much you're burning... but that's all they are, and it's a tiny tiny portion of how much you are burning.
"Don't over think it": I like what a poster said elsewhere in the comments: We need to start treating obesity as we treat mental illness. Just as "Just cheer up" is not an appropriate thing to tell someone clinically depressed, your suggestions are not useful to someone who is unable to lose weight. Do you think they haven't tried? What do you think is supposed to happen when people keep telling them "Just eat less" and it's not working, are they not supposed to overthink it?
Perhaps I am a bit out of touch, but I have never met someone that didn't really know these things or that more calories are bad, sugar is in everything that is processed, and that exercise of any sort will help keep you healthy and lose weight.
Psychologically there is a lot going on with people's relationship with food, but by just putting more barriers and rules and reading material in front of them is just confusing the situation.
Start small, cut back a single pop per day for example. That's 15 pounds a year in calories! Do a couple pushups in the morning. Whatever it takes to get started and build from there. If you just dump all these "what if's" and "how to's" in front of everyone they will get distracted from what they need to do and feel like they failed at something that doesn't need to be that complex.
Upon saying that, I wouldn't recommend it. The best weight management methods are holistic, the different facets of healthy weight management: exercise, meal composition, and serving size, all play into each other.
You want to exercise more, eat less, and eat healthier.
If you eat healthier; whole grains instead of refined carbs, lots of leafy greens, legumes to replace carbs, and avoid processed foods; then you'll feel satiated while eating less, both in calories and in just bulk amount of food.
You'll have more energy from a diet consisting of whole foods instead of refined carbs, which will allow you to exercise more and exercise harder. There's no reason why you can't burn 800 calories in an hour of hard exercise with the right diet and motivation. It might be different for other people, but for me, exercising also makes me want to eat healthier.
I've found that group classes (crossfit, spin, etc.) are a great motivator to exercise too. If you see the same people every time you go, you form a group and it becomes a social activity. Obviously that's not for all of us, but I always struggled with motivation to go to the gym solo. When I started doing functional fitness group sessions, I couldn't stop. I went to every session (3 times a week) for 8 months, the only sessions I missed were when I was out of town. Otherwise I'd turn up no matter how I felt, whether tired, sick, or hungover, I'd drag my arse out.
The big thing is really motivation. Going solo, it's really easy to lose motivation. If you have friends who are also eating healthy and working out with you, it really helps. For me, it was other people in my coworking space. The space was really big into healthy lifestyles, so there were a bunch of us who would bring healthy food to work and go to the gym together. Another great tip is to avoid buying any packaged food. Only eat food you've prepared yourself, that way you don't accidentally eat a bunch of food you don't need to as you need to physically go out of your way to make food to eat. That may include cutting bread out of your diet, it's too easy to make a piece of toast if you're peckish, it's a lot more work to cook a potato.
I didn't lose as much weight as I wanted to because alcohol was a major food group, but I toned up a whole lot and felt a lot healthier in general. It also had a positive mental health effect.
Unfortunately I moved overseas and lost my momentum. It's been 8 months since I've gone to a gym and I've managed to pick up most of my old bad habits again. At least I can still run 5 km (3 miles) in 30 minutes, so it's not all gone.
Anyway, my point is: technically, yes, simply counting calories will work for weight loss. But that's the hard way. You'll feel like shit, constantly hunger and lacking energy. Take a holistic approach to your health. And if you don't exercise and eat healthy food, you might get skinny, but you'll still be unfit and unhealthy, you just won't get a heart attack at 30.