Quill is really neat and I agree that it's a lot further down the road than most libraries like this.
But it all feels a bit too "magical" for me. Seems like you're trading one class of bugs - hand-written SQL mismatching your types - for another - this magic doing something unexpected when you try to do something weird. But maybe it's really really good and that second class of bug never happens. I'm just hesitant (and happy with doobie for now).