There are more than 2 desktop environments for Linux you've tried if my guess is right (since you've tried Ubuntu). Imo KDE is light years ahead than Windows but requires to set it up for your taste.
I like that under Linux you have a freedom of choice when it comes to window managers. KDE, Gnome2-3, XFCE, Cinnamon, you name it. It's awesome to have so many tools for one problem.
Hell, I even liked Unity. I think it was a very clean and easy to use wmanager.
But no matter how fancy-ass the wrapping is, if the problem is underneath it.
Solution: install Synaptics, open KDE panel, set both acceleration settings to a low value, enjoy.