Also, your the Intel setup has a 25 GB/s QPI bus between the processors. Threadripper runs an Infinity Fabric bus, with 42 GB/s between each die internally (aggregate 170 GB/s). While a couple of those internal dies are not directly connected to the memory, you should have little trouble sharing meals among those hungry processors.
I've seen some people hit 3466MT/s on higher-end more expensive RAM on AMD's 12nm stuffs (Ryzen 2). So that's probably the practical limit.
3200 MT/s on Hynix dies is probably a reasonable expectation.
For actual production workloads you want EPYC which has a memory controller for each die, meaning it's 8 channel.
A lot of these pins aren't used on TR, since you only get half the memory controllers you'd have with EPYC
Ultimately it depends on how cache friendly your workload is.
The 32c/64t is kind of a marketting gimmick selling binned Eypcs. If your doing memory bound HPC consider the 16c/32t model for roughly equal performance at a lower price.