The only place I’ve worked that was “good” instead of “treats people poorly but where else are they going to go” was a small, boutique financial company.
Small companies that are randomly led by non-dummies are the best, but are exceedingly rare. Out of the vast majority comprising the other stuff, it’s mostly all so miserable that you’re doing yourself a favor to skip it unless the pay is some dramatic increase for you or you otherwise have some emergency requiring you to take some job.
(And yeah, the pay makes a difference. Not a lot of places where you can make a few hundred thousand dollars a year.)
(I’m making a distinction between the idea that a job “is fine” where one “is happy” merely because the culture is at least not worse than elsewhere while the pay is better vs actually feeling positively about one’s company’s culture and corporate behavior.
For example, my friends who work at Facebook are “happy” with their jobs, mostly because of pay and because they know if they switch to other companies, politics, corporate misbehavior, etc., will just continue. But these same people tell me frequently how sad, upset, soulless, disappointed they regularly feel because of their employer.
That feeling I think is extremely widespread in tech, almost all employers. That’s the only part in my viewpoint that matters for whether someone “is happy” at their job, and it’s that type of bad culture I think can be easily flagged by little stuff, like bad whiteboard interviews.)
Nobody has any idea what’s going on; nobody has clarity. And when someone does have clarity, middle management is only interested if they can set it up like a battery to harvest credit from. If they can’t, their incentives are usually more aligned with intentionally abusing process to “manage out” innovative people.