Of course I don't have any scientific evidence for this claim. But there are lots of phenomena that exist in the world that don't yet have scientific support. I think that software his higher uncertainty because it is much less constrained than physical engineering. There are a relatively limited number of ways that one part of a physical system can impact other parts, and those are constrained by the laws of physics. Software systems have no such laws. It's often possible for any component to write to arbitrary locations in memory controlled by any other component. This is kind of like a rusty hinge on a 34th floor bathroom door causing a problem with a doorbell on the third floor. Those kinds of actions at afar just don't happen in the physical world and if they do, they happen via pretty well understood physical mechanisms. To make matters worse, the discipline of software engineering is less than a hundred years old as opposed to thousands of years for physical engineering.
It's not about feeling special. I think there is something fundamentally different about software.