The neglected benefits of the commute
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I did the infamous SF to Mountain View commute on "The Google Bus" for two years. It's about as decent as a 1.5hr commute can be, you're on a quiet private bus with big seats and WiFi.
I spent about 80% of the time reading novels. With a few hours to myself a day I was reading a book a week no problem. In that sense it was nice.
Then I got moved to the SF office. My commute turned into a 20m bike or subway. Quality of life went through the roof. My girlfriend told me I seemed happier all day. I could still read in my saved time, but I was also free to spend that time on other things. I also get to spend a lot more time with my friends since I'm available to meet up after work on short notice.
Having this experience, I wouldn't go back to the commute even for a 20% raise. It's that bad.
I did the Boston version of this. My wife and I lived downtown and moved to a suburb when our son was 7 months old. My one-way commute went from a 15 minute subway ride to a 1-1.5 hour trip depending on buses and such.
Five years later, we sold our house and moved back into the city and my commute shifted to a 20 minute walk. At one point, due an office move, I could see my office from my living room (I lived in a high rise). I literally gained 40-80 extra minutes a day and lost 15 pounds. I was also able to coach my son's sports teams since leaving at 4:30pm for a 5pm practice was much easier to do than leaving at 3:30pm and wondering if I'll make it in time the entire way.
And now, 5 years after that, I've moved out of the city again. ADHD and a need for space and room to roam have forced the change. I'm back to a 40-60 minute commute and counting the days (approx 2800) until my son is off to college/out of the house and I can move back.
But I would never have wanted to do that long term nor every day. It's still a big chunk out of the day and forced me into a particular schedule. It also didn't work for when I wanted to do anything in the evening in which case I had a fairly congested drive even leaving quite early in the morning.
Bear in mind you just cited 29% of 8 hours extra (140 extra minutes) for that 20% raise.
I've also noticed that I now stay at the office later than I used to when I was on the bus, because I can go home whenever I want. So I am giving the company some "free" hours and am happy to do so. Feels like a choice not a mobile jail.
I calculated that I am £1000 / $1300 better off per month just from not commuting not counting my pay rise
Travel to / from station 220
misc coffee news paper 100
Say £800 after income tax and NI is eqvielent to almost £1000
My relationships take a nosedive when I have a long commute. It’s not that I become a jerk or anything. In both cases, my GFs commented that I was clearly much happier when the commutes ended. The quality of the time we spend together improves so much that during a recent job hunt I kept my search limited to a 10-15 minute radius from my home and didn’t even consider lucrative positions outside that range.
>> I also get to spend a lot more time with my friends
I think that's key. Spending your time in activities known to help create deep sense of well-being. Books/entertainment maybe do not. Friends do. Meditation probably does. Maybe there are others ?
However, being Ealing, I also had the option of taking the District Line to rougly the same place (Tower Bridge). My journery was now 1hr 15m, however with the DL's spacious air-conditioned carriages and guaranteed seat, it was well worth it. It put me in the best state of mind and allowed me to use my laptop to work on my own projects. In 6 months of 2hrs to myself each day, I wrote medistudents.com and still was able to relax at the end of the day and not let software development impact home life. Without the commute and this opportunity to work on my own things, I would have either never found the time for a side project, or p*ssed off my girlfriend for spending all night on the laptop.
Nowadays I either work from home or commute by car. It's just not the same - either from looking at the same 4 walls every day, or regarding time spent in traffic as a complete waste. And my time on my own projects has now essentially reduced to zero.
So if you commute by a comfortable bus or train, spend your time wisely. Definitely don't waste it playing Candy Crush. Take advantage of it for working on a side project, learning something new, or just self-reflection.
Once I had ditched my FB habit I now use my commutes for EdX on my phone. Doesn’t always work - for some things you really need to be sitting at a desk with a real keyboard and paper and pencil - but it’s definitely possible to make good progress.
When I moved to Europe (London, then Berlin) the trains were too small and too crowded - Also they usually have seats facing other seats which is distracting. Not private enough for me to concentrate.
As I would leave early I would normally get a seat and spent that time triaging issues or writing code or just working on my own stuff - it was nice.
I moved overseas and my commute went to 15 minutes on the bicycle - it was much better for my health and well-being as well as being able to have breakfast with my kids, and be home in time for dinner - these didn't happen when I was spending 90 minutes a day commuting.
Since moving back to Sydney our requirements as a family were to find a place that was similar to what we had overseas - short commute for me and walking distance to shops / schools.
Some days I look back on the commute with rose-coloured glasses and the time I had to myself, but I often forget the amount of times I had to forgo social activities or the hours I spent waiting for missed or delayed trains. And of course with my kids getting older I wouldn't give up the time with them to sit on my bum on a train :)
It takes me back to times in my early 20's where I'd run out of things to do at work so would just get to "surf the internet" - eventually you just run out of stuff that will keep you entertained until the clock finally ticks round to 5pm.
You have no choice but to commute, so you either slog through it or use the time constructively.
As a 100% remote worker, I have no commute to motivate me to fill that time. But I can get up early and go running, visit the gym, read, prepare for work, do a side project etc during the exact time slot I would have been travelling to/from an office.
I don't miss that time spent commuting at all but sometimes I miss the enforced discipline it provides. If I'm not feeling motivated then that time just gets eaten up by sleeping late etc. Having an external motivator like commuting means you can't be lazy.
However, I have a 20-30 minute bus ride to work everyday in which there are never free seats and you are often lucky if you even have room to reach into your pocket let alone watch videos on your phone.
It's hard to see any benefit to the latter commute as being rammed in like cattle doesn't aid self-reflection either.
Then again I still prefer this over 45mins of "sitting down", because I can somehow do something in that time even if worse case it's just listening to music and let my mind wander, whereas I see most of it wasted anyway
So I started with this company and asked for remote work for 3 days a week and they accepted, but when I started they sent my supervisor to work on a different project and the new one refused any form of remote work, and it was too late to change since it's a long process between the company and the school etc...
So now I do 2x2h of commute a day, and most of it is standing in a train or a subway filled with people, I tried every form of entertainment or podcasts or videos but nothing does it, I only have 1 month left though but it was the most soul crushing experience of my life.
The irony in all of this is I'm a developper and their VPN works flawlessly and I'm the only one working on the project so there are at most one meeting a week and it's done over Skype since most employees work remotely, but not interns. I now believe that there are no actual benefits to commute (as in big city commute with subways etc...) and they're the ones losing manhours, since I could have put those 4h a day working on the project.
E.g. I've been listening to a lot of Jared Diamond hile driving. Dan Carlin Hardcore History is also great. https://www.dancarlin.com/hardcore-history-series/
I can't even get a dog with the commute I have now.
Sorry, could not resist. I envy your commute (I used to do that, now I do mountain view -> SF)
No one is convincing me a commute is better than this.
My main problem with a commute is not that it's 30 minutes, but that it's 30 minutes by car. I despise driving. It seems like such a complete waste of time in general. Plus, it's dangerous dealing with a bunch of idiots on their phones. /rant over
Self driving cars still waste a lot of space, if they're only transporting one or two people.
In short, living an hour outside of London in a small village meant that the drive to the station (to take the train to London) involved rolling hills and long and twisted scenic roads. It was really enjoyable - usually my favourite time of the day - even more so if like me you are into your cars and bought yourself a nice car to enjoy it with.
On summer evenings after work I would find myself taking 1 to 2 hour detours discovering new roads and sceneries, usually until the sunset which at peak was somewhere between 9 and 10pm. It was the best thing I ever did for my mental health, but now I live in London it's not something I can do anymore. I walk to and from work through a very busy, stressful and polluted city.
It also means I get ~10 hours reading done a week, which has come to ~50 books/year for the last few years.
I read mostly non-fiction and usually they are textbooks on varied subjects (often not related to work). I feel this has vastly improved my understanding of the world and has meant I can talk to people about many various subjects, ones I would know almost nothing about otherwise.
Inspiring! I often feel uneducated so would love to get in a similar position.
OT but any books you recommend?
It would take a lot to make me switch to a job that I would not be able to reach in half an hour or so on a bike.
My switch a few years back has been almost universally positive, though I do read less as a result.
45 minutes is also good - if you can use dedicated away-from-roads bike paths for the most of it :)
Learn to empathize.
This is mostly done on bike in The Netherlands. A normal bike supports 2 kids. There's also bikes to transport 4-5 kids. I regularly see those bigger bikes btw. It does take that your country plans things accordingly. Back in the 1960s there wasn't much of a bike infrastructure, though there were loads of cars and car accidents.
I said it is very much possible, and these were middle-aged people, not athletes by any measure.
Biking is a very energy-efficient mode of transport, it really doesn't take long before you're able to ride 20 or 30km in a single stretch.
I have more free time that doesn't concentrate on work this way, which means I have more time for hobbies (I draw and paint). Plus bonus physical activity.
As a result, I lost 40 pounds.
Now that I don't do that walk anymore, I've gained half of that back.
I had some weight loss at first, but I do gain a bit when I stop doing so much walking. I know I should just get out and walk anyway, but walking is so boring when I don't have somewhere to go.
You walk to work, and you get there nice and relaxed and ready to work.
You bike to work, and you get there all excited and sweaty, and need a few minutes to settle down before hitting the flow. Very close second, though.
You bus to work, and you arrive with a headache trying to read on the bouncy bus.
You drive to work, and you arrive all angry and stressed from the traffic.
That depends on how hard you go at it. Sure, if I keep a 25kph average speed, I'm going to be sweaty quickly.
But keep a more sedate speed, and it's no problem at all, and very relaxing.
There are 2 exceptions - positive one being a good pet with feedback (ie dog, or maybe even cat), and negative being longer commute. It just drains our positive energy, one bit at a time, continuously.
I used to commute to work 70-90 minutes each way with many types of transport (usually bus-train-tram but sometimes more), every day. I didn't come home drained from work, that I can handle easily, but commute was soul crushing, no matter what I read/did (and mostly I could have a seat).
Eventually enough was enough, I moved to the city where work is, and having 15 minute commute saves me freakin' 2+ hours of my life, every single work day. You can't put the price on that. And the move was positive change in my life for other reasons as well.
Many people around me tell me they can handle long commutes, but they don't appear to be very happy in their lives. Honestly, if you can, do a change in your life. You won't regret it.
I then moved smack into the city, had a walking commute to work for many years, and absolutely loved that.
Now, my commute is 8 miles (each way) driving and while I'd prefer a walkable commute, I definitely can't imagine going back to driving 75 miles per day.
I think "can handle" is the best description I could use for a long commute. You can, but try not to...
I concur.
In my experience there is a phenomenon (in driving generically, not necessarily in driving for commuting), that I believe is connected to the fact that kms/miles driven "add up".
For me this happened on or around the 1,000,000 kms mark.
I know it sounds obvious/a truism but after one has driven for a (large) amount of kms in his/her life, he/she has "enough" of that.
The 10/15/20 kms/minutes remain "ok", but longer commutes start to be "annoying".
I am now living at a 8 km (please read as 8 minutes) drive away from work, and it is just fine, when I have to go to the nearby city (35-40 km away), and I have to do that 1 or 2 times per week, I try to avoid the car and take the train if I can.
Longish trips (200-300 or more) kms are still OK (because they are not common), but I wouldn't stand the daily commute for 40 kms.
Just drop a couple of mil * to stock market and live off the dividends.
*) Not an option for most people, I know. But so is commuteless life.
I'll take the time and money savings of working from home any day. By a very conservative estimate, commuting to work used up about 12 full days of my life every year.
I don't dispute the accelerated learning bit- I've recently started taking out my laptop and trying to learn Go while commuting and it's been mostly productive. I had to block reddit on my phone first though...
Specifically, I do this in Melbourne, Australia where it's free and legal to park a motorcycle on the pavement (aka sidewalk). A 2012 study found that we make up almost exactly 1% of all commuters: http://atrf.info/papers/2013/2013_rose_delbosc.pdf
I have a friend of mine who commutes an hour+ by train each day and he has basically agreed with his boss that if he works on the train he can leave earlier/show up later.
I suspect that's partly because our public transport has been utterly decimated to the point that you have to walk several miles a day to get to work.
Unless you live somewhere like London, I suppose.
Would I rather avoid the commute and have a job within walking distance if possible? Hell yeah! I'd much rather spend my commuting time at home doing something interesting.
And the subway ride - that's one of the sparse opportunities to read a book. Though, 20 minutes is not a very long while for reading, but still. Earlier the ride would take me 30-35 minutes – even more time for reading! That's what allows to me to read a lot. Relatively a lot, of course. If I was driving a car or walking all the way I wouldn't have read even half of that amount, that's for sure.
So, for me, I believe, commute is definitely a useful thing, I'd say.
To use the examples from the article "Accelerated learning" is really not the benefit of a commute but doing "work-related prospection" (whatever that is).
The psychological benefits of carpooling with people otherwise unrelated were, for me, surprisingly high. On the way to work we'd discuss the day ahead, on the way back recap stuff or talk about our plans for the night or weekend.
I don't want to go back to long car commutes but would happily sign up for a carpool again if needed.
Unless you like to drive, or in my case, love to drive. I.e., it's subjective.
I absolutely hate driving in traffic.
I know people who commute over 3h a day, that makes multiple weeks a year just being "in transit"...
If you're somehow in a situation where you have to commute, you can certainly make the best of it. But, let's not exalt it as some sort of healthy, zen, practice.
The main positive thing that came from this commute was reading for pleasure (somthing I was not doing beforehand)
I don't try to max productivity on the commute, and my mental health thanks me for that
One of the benefits was being able to go home and take a nap at lunch time.