Getting NSLed or TOSed is a potential risk, not a guarantee. For most people who are doing nothing controversial or interesting and who are just using the cloud to receive service notifications and correspondence from friends (who are also doing nothing controversial or interesting), it isn’t a loss of control.
This is a real trade-off, and neither is right. But don’t pretend that keeping a half dozen complex services up, backed up, and secured isn’t a huge time investment. You can’t get that back.