Rust however does not offer nearly the same level of power when it comes to runtime introspection that BEAM does.
Coming from a company that uses elixir heavily and has made a significant investment in rust, I don’t think we would ever use solely rust on our distributed systems. However, we have rewritten some code that elixir was too slow at in rust and exposed it as a NIF on BEAM - and that has worked well. (Blog post on that soon hopefully).
I do admit, we are also going to be ditching mnesia for one of our clusters for our own in-house simpler system (ETS replication with different consistency/netsplit guarantees for our use-case), we've had to write our own cross-node process monitoring solution (at peak we see 200M+ cross-node monitors on our cluster), and we've also had to overcome the limits of message-fanout on distribution as well (https://github.com/discordapp/manifold).
However, for operating at our scale (peak 9m ccu @ 5m events/sec fanout to clients), we run a surprisingly small number of servers for our real time system (~120).
EDIT: I can't reply to your post below, but I think the runtime introspection we run into is not dealing with OS level metrics, but application level introspection. Introspecting the state of processes, writing code in the repl to debug issues within the cluster, benchmarking to find hot functions or where specific processes are spending a lot of their time. Capturing traffic to replay on a test cluster to simulate production load, all becomes very trivial with BEAM.