I was a couple years ahead of Star in school and know she was a long time fan of burning man, even going while in undergrad. No way this guy was the first person to tell her about it as this article implies. (but doesn’t explicitly state) Maybe meeting a fellow burner is what brought out his extra creepy side but that’s no excuse.
She was probably going to be there anyway. She might make plans with a weeks notice but really doubt a mom living in another state would have.
though also Star is a amazing famous person in her own right! She deserves more attention than Mr. DoucheVaul