Why do you prefer Lightning to USB-C? Just curious.
I've had phones were the plug felt very weak in the socket, and devices with a very satisfying snap and a very strong connection.
This is to say that usb-c is not inherently bad, it depends a lot on the hardware (and I'm sure Apple will get it right)
Cable snaps in nicely now.
The lightning contacts are flush with the port, so very unlikely to get damaged. On the other hand the USB-C has that fragile looking wafer on the device-side.