Well, people don't usually consider themselves to be coerced by themselves, so it makes sense that anyone who feels they were coerced into it is blaming someone else.
Yeah, blame the victim some more. That's a good look.
I mean, if you have a kid because society tells you to have a kid, I'd say the kid is the victim and that the adult made a poor decision under pressure. That's not victimhood, that's a mistake.
Though victims being pushed into bad choices by coercive people is a thing. But these are of course just labels. Only so helpful.