> ... I was the "smart engineer", so obviously a huge nerd with no social ability...
> I got so tired of smiling and nodding (or rolling my eyes, depending on who it was)...
> ... Silicon Valley would have likely been much too sophisticated for them.
Not to get personal, and I'm sure you're more empathetic in real life, but your frustrations might seem like geeky egotism to your coworkers.