I don't mean to unfairly paraphrase but to transpose what you wrote so it shows these stories you are telling yourself
- usually people criticising OOP are "bad programmers"
- OOP is easy, alternatives are hard
- Even if OOP model is a bad fit, it's still a model and the extra devs needed to solve its bad fit can easily be chained to the oars
- If OOP makes trouble, it was because it was "done badly"
- Most easy things work well enough even if "done badly" (that is just not true)
- If OOP can be cobbled together to work at all, it is justified since that justifies anything
If you consider a simpler proposition like, "this can be done in a few hundred or thousand lines of C99 instead of latest C++ and boost", I think there is just no valid reason to bring OOP into it.