I suggest you a small game: we all depend on society but there are various level of dependency; for instance in a country house you may:
- have fuel stocks enough for a month or two or even three so while you still depend on fuel supply you may not depend too much on constant supply like you do not suffer casual strikes, emergencies etc;
- have food stocks (big freezers in garage) that let you live comfortably for a month and you may integrate them and re-supply from various sources, including a little bit from nature (hunting, fishing, vegetable garden+proper preservation);
- have enough water stock (rainwater recovery / sources) to not suffer both aqueduct outages or contamination;
- have enough tools and prime matter to being able to repair a bit your home in case of need for long time;
On contrary in dense cities you haven't space to stock food, water, fuel, ... you can't even heat yourself in the winter burning wood in a stove. So you depend completely on city infrastructure, without option in case of even short outages. City infrastructure in turn depend on few countrywide networks that's are similar but LESS important than the countryside.
Today's, and not from today's, people inhabited to have anything at their fingertips do not think at those vulnerabilities not much different than many today's programmers that treat web services like a thing that always run and it's always available...
We have only to wait to see the results.