Typically, everything in civil aviation is done to DO-178C. Almost everything we work on is level A, the highest level of criticality. Military stuff is generally much less rigorous, believe it or not.
Once software is operational, whether you are following DO-178x/33x, FDA's General Principles of Software Validation and other guidelines, ISO-whatever, or NASA/military TRL, there's a whole ton of stuff you have to do to make any changes once you reach a certain point in development. Since most businesses have the benefit of captive employees that can be woken up in the middle of hte night and terra-locked systems, they never even come close to reaching that point.