https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Validation_set
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Smooth_function
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/N-simplex
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Preimage_theorem
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codimension
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Submanifold
I guess it depends on whether you're willing to read a textbook's worth of Wikipedia articles. (There is no shortcut. Actual 5-year-olds also require a few years until they can understand advanced mathematics.)
Of course there are differences, once you choose a kernel the feature map is set in stone, on the otherhand DNNs can search over the space of feature maps. It is likely that the function that a DNN converged to was already in the Hilbert space associated with the kernel, but that does not mean one would converge to it in a finite amount of training data.
Once one goes to infinite dimensions all separable Hilbert spaces are the same (up to isomorphisms) but with finite data it matters what basis / kernel one chooses.