I've lived on the 3rd floor of a wood framed 4 story apartment building, and won't repeat that experience if I can help it -- we could hear the couple upstairs very clearly, footsteps, their dog jumping off the couch and barking out the window, late-night sex, all were easy to hear.
In contrast, I lived on the 5th floor of a 9 story concrete and steel high rise, and couldn't hear anything. I even had the upstairs neighbors ask me if I could hear their new treadmill, and I could not.
I assume that the sheer mass of the concrete floors made it so quiet -- Can a wood framed building be constructed with that same level of isolation?