> If we take for example the latter observation of unbounded time dilation seriously, we come to the conclusion that in the moment that we spend on the horizon all time passes for anything outside the black hole. The end of all things happens in the rest of the universe, and in fact after the moment in which we enter the black hole, there is no way back.
> However, if we consider a black hole of the same mass, things look rather different. As a (partially) quantum object it radiates and evaporates within a tiny fraction of a second. All its mass converts into energy, which results in an explosion three times stronger than the bomb dropped on Hiroshima.
How do these two things mix? A particle experiences asymptotic time dilation when it crosses the event horizon and the rest of the universe ends in that moment. Then the black hole evaporates and lo and behold the universe is not ended.
Yeah, the particle that went in got annihilated and never actually came back out. Sure. But if the black hole does not survive until the end of the universe, then it seems fundamentally impossible that the particle in question experienced unbounded/infinite/asymptotic time dilation. The particle’s annihilation must have happened by the time the black hole evaporated. And yes, time is relative, but it doesn’t run in reverse.