Ask HN: Trying to be more Gmail-independent with Gandi and email forwarding
I heavily depend on Gmail and still plan on using it since I love the interface and the mobile app, but I don't want to risk the potential massive damages of Google deciding to inadvertently suspend my account for TOS violation, locking me out of my other 300+ accounts that depend on my email address.
So, on top of doing periodic data exports with Google Takeout, I also did the following:
1) Registered "lastname.com" domain with Gandi (and enabled u2f authentication)
2) Setup email forwarding of "firstname@lastname.com" to my Gmail address in Gandi
3) Gradually plan on moving all my identity to "firstname@lastname.com", while using Gmail as backend
The problem is, I don't like the email forwarding feature, it screws up SPF validations since now there is one mail server in the middle (the Gandi one) that forwards mail it isn't supposed to according to SPF, so all the emails forwarded to Gmail become essentially a SOFTFAIL/NEUTRAL/FAIL (and they show up as that).
At the same time, I don't want to create a full mail account on Gandi and then enable the POP3 fetching from Gmail, because that feels very insecure (Gandi doesn't have 2FA/access auditing for mail accounts).
If I want to stay in the Google ecosystem, do I really have to convert to GSuite? Any suggestion?
Thanks