Closest I saw might be the now defunct Eve lang [2], because it was a reactive system based on datalog (?) semantics, so it looks like it is one of the few attempts, that played with some sort of relational semantics.
Second I might consider could be C# with LINQ? This is probably the most interesting embedding of relational programming into a modern mainstream language :)
Third, these-days you mostly see Functional Relational Programming, that seems to be trying to solve a similar problem. It drops the Relational entirely, but there still is large focus on state-management.
[1] http://curtclifton.net/papers/MoseleyMarks06a.pdf [2] https://github.com/witheve/eve-native
Unfortunately, I don't know if Meander is used in any production systems.