How much of your life can be outsourced, before it's no longer your life? How much of a man still makes a man?
Edgar Allan Poe had a funny little story about that and technology, all the way back in 1840:
There's no hard and fast rules on what makes an experience worth living. If automating and outsourcing everything makes you happy, do it!
Life is short.
As that EA Poe story skilfully anticipated, and as our modernity puts more and more into practice, "you" is just a chimera, a leaky abstraction. It appears the questions of tomorrow will be around "what's the entity exercising agency" more than "how much agency".
Surrogate matchmakers are but a taste of things to come.