Vs 2017 is currently broken when you reload a project because it shows multiple tabs for the same file: https://developercommunity.visualstudio.com/content/problem/...
They already said that it was fixed in version .3 while it was not true. I still didn’t bother to check in version .4.
Several times I had my VS crashing for out of memory. Is it possible in 2019 to have a 32 bit IDE????
On the resharper side performances have been abysmal with the latest release and debugging unit tests has become a blood bath for a really nice bug that makes the unit tests unable to run in the test runner because the dll of your project is somehow lost sometimes. This bug was still not fixed last time that I checked.
Maybe you have been lucky or you never worked with very big projects, but VS is quite a shit show.